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reader, willywombat  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 How long is a piece of string?
I agree with all the previous aunts on here, you just dont know, but as you know him better than anybody then only you may have an inkling of the answer....
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reader, mystify +, writes (3 March 2006):
 you know him better than anyone here, so you are the best person to answer your question.
theres no denying alot of men in the army cheat as do alot of women who are left behind at home.
my main concern would be the peer pressure, like others said there is no real knowing and if he did there would probably be no catching him , i think the question you need to ask is "is this what you want and do you think you can cope with it"
then decide what YOU want regardless of what he may or may not do
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (2 March 2006):
 I agree. There is no way to tell whether he will be faithful. But there is a saying that goes "Why worry today? If you worry today, it may not happen and you will have worried for nothing. If it does happen, you had to worry twice!" So, no need to worry about what will happen in the future because you have no control over the situation. But you can decide what is best for you, and if you feel you will have a hard time trusting him (or yourself) while he is away, then you need to think about seeing someone who's planning on sticking around.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Who knows, if your relationship is very strong and he loves you then hopefully not but no one even he can say, you will just have to trust him.
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