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We kissed but now that it's happened, he avoids me! What should I do?

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Question - (2 March 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2006)
A female United Kingdom, *iddenspace writes:

Hiya,

I recently french kissed this boy that I've liked for ages, it was my first time. But now that I've done it he seems to be avoiding me. He signs on msn but doesn't engage in any conversation with me, and it feels already that he just wanted me to kiss, and not go that step further. Please tell me what to do and say.

Thanks

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2006):

smeedle agony auntOh dear, what a mess, he is a pig and you are better off without him so start looking for another bloke.

One kiss does not make you a hoar so forget her nasty comments she is just hurting as you kissed her bloke and now she knows she cannot trust him.

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A female reader, hiddenspace United Kingdom +, writes (3 March 2006):

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hiddenspace agony auntHiya, just to let you know, that he was still going out with someone when he kissed me. So now, she's calling me a whore and he says that he's done nothing wrong, I asked him, and he said yes. Now I feel really guilty, as I really wanted it to go somewhere. But thanks for the advice.

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A female reader, juliagulia United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2006):

juliagulia agony auntWell, well, your first kiss. Maybe it was his first kiss, too and he feels embarrassed or something. Who knows what boys are thinking most of the time?! I think you should follow the advice you were already given and just let it ride. The ball is in his court and it is up to him to make the next move, if any. If he doesn't, well, I guess he was just practice for the next lucky boy!

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2006):

smeedle agony auntSay and do nothing, what you did was not wrong, you kissed him and he was consenting to it, I doubt you had to tie him down so now you have done it and that is that.

Sounds like he wanted to kiss someone and did and now for him that is that.

Do`nt bother trying to get into conversation with him anymore, you have made the first move and so the rest is up to him and if he cartnt be bothered then neither should you.

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