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writes:ok my best friend forever just told me this morning that my CRUSH and HER just started DATING that morning and she knows I like him pluse this is like her 5th bf sence school started so i dont them to get hurt cause were all are really close friends but everytime she brought it up I felt really depressed I know I should move on but I and be happy for them but i cant what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): i know how you feel. This just happened to me today. I mean i am happy for her but i wish that was me. You should tell her how you feel about the situation. She will probably understand, since she is your best friend. If she knew you like him a lot, then she might have gone behind your back, but she probably didn't mean to hurt you. I do not suggest trying to break them up, because if your friend finds out, she will not be happy, and if the guy finds out, its likely he will never like you/date you. So just tell them how you feel, and hopefully everything turns out alright. (:
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reader, Jo-CX/ +, writes (1 October 2010):
Jo-CX/ is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you your advice is really helpful Itflowing
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reader, ltflowing +, writes (1 October 2010):
I'm sorry, I know you must feel awful and betrayed by your best friend. I can see that part of you values her friendship and part of you is probably really pissed and hurt. I don't know how deep this crush is to you, but probably all the wonderful things about him that you pointed out to your friend made her really interested in him too. People get excited over things that other people are excited about all the time.
This is the time to be careful not to get all crazy and mad because it will point out all your flaws to your crush. She probably told him you liked him and got close to him that way. Just be kind and sweet about the whole thing (as you are) and if he ever has feelings for you, they will surface. -And if not, there are plenty more wonderful guys that you will come across in your life. Chances are, she will not be his last girlfriend.
Focus on what you are good at and interested in. Use your crush to be the best person you can be and eventually he will notice you for all your strengths...and by then, you will be so amazing that he may no longer be the one you want. Your story is not over.
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reader, Zuni +, writes (1 October 2010):
 Well, most schools have only been going for about a month or so, and if she's already on her fifth boyfriend sense school started, so it will probably only last a week or two. Don't be depressed about it because it probably won't last too long and if all of you are as close of friends as you say, then your friendship should survive this, Your relationship with the two will be fine, the relationship between your friend and crush might change a little however.
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