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My best friend is hating me but I don't know why...

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Question - (26 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2008)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm 1.5m, well endowed, reasonably good looking, conservative sense of fashion, reasonable sense of humour, anime/manga fan and really good in art and computers. My voice is considered quite good for singing and so on, so forth... I've had a crush on my childhood friend and my best friend does too.(4 about 3years). So anyway, recently my best friend, named sarah, is giving me the cold shoulder and hiding things from me. I.ve tried asking her if i did anythingwrong that made her angry or even hate me and she gives the normal answer, on i'm angry with my ____ then i'm like, okay find with me. Then now she insists that all my other friends dont talk to me unless it's important. So just who the hell is she to try and take away things that aren't hers to take? Then the say i steal her friends and back stab me non stop! So i'm like damn confused and she look at me with envy in her eyes trying to say get off stuff that aren't yours and they were my friends longer than hers and i introduced then to her so who is she, god? Then one of then suggested that maybe she's angry cos of envy and i dun get it cos she's never envied someone else! Then our crush seems to walk over to my seat although he sits next to her and she get damn angry cos he's noticing me more than he ever noticed her so help me cos i'm bloody confused! Please dun mind my language.

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (27 August 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntthank you for the compliment =] good luck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 August 2008):

eyeswideopen agony aunt"cough"...award?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008):

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okay thanks. You rock supershawna (did i get the name right?) anyway, i love your advice and i.ve read your advice of other's questions. You make a great aunt agony so i hope you get the award

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (27 August 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntit is very simple. both you and your best friend are attracted to the same guy, and she is starting drama over it. she is starting to see you as your competition and is doing everything she can to make your life miserable. it sucks.

do your best to act like you don't notice it, be the bigger person.

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