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*biiBabes
writes:I dont like the way my bestfriend is lately. Shes been with her current bf, for about 3months now, and i've been with mine for just over a month. But whenever she is with him, practically all the time, she shows off and changes for the worse. I asked what's for dinner, as im at hers alot, practically live here, and she moans back , come down and you'll F***ing see. Her bf just always seems to be there, we're like in bed and theres a kn ock on the bedroom door, early in the morning, and he lives like an hour away. its annoyingg how he's always there, shes 14 and he is 16. same age as me and my bf. But mine has a descent job so onli see him evenings, and not every evening at that x how can i talk to her in a way it well get thru, cos it never seems to get in her head that her moods are crushing me?thanks x
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reader, AbiiBabes +, writes (15 August 2008):
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i wrote a letter and that and spoke to her boyfriend but nothing seems to work. she gets all jelous cos my boyfriend pays for me when we go out but with her, she has to pay for herself x
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reader, PaSpa  +, writes (14 August 2008):
Hi! My daughter is 14, and she acts differently around her family and friends than she does around her boyfriend. I think she is just trying to be more like him when he's around because she thinks it will make her seem more attractive to him as a person. Is there a possibility that your bff's boyfriend has done or said something to make her think that he's jealous of her friendship with you? If that's the case, maybe she's trying to do little things like what you mentioned to make him feel like he's more special, even if she likes you no less than before he came into the picture. Yes, she's definitely showing off. Don't make her choose between the boyfriend and you, and don't criticize him. It seems you've tried talking to her about it already. Instead, tell her in a nice way that she doesn't have to put on airs to make a guy like her, because she's great just the way she is. Remember it's not the boyfriend's fault; she herself is choosing to act this way. Maybe you can mention something to her boyfriend: "You know, she only does these things when you're around. Why do you think that is?" Perhaps that will help. :)
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