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Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?

Q.   Are all women with "tramp stamps" aka tattoos on the small of the back, sleep-arounds or is this a label put on them?...

A.   14 August 2008: I have a friend who is 40 who has a "tramp stamp." She has been with the same man, now her husband, since she was 12 years of age, so I would harldy call her an actual tramp or whore. She is a very nice, wholesome, good person. She just happens ... (read in full...)

My best friend has mutiple personalities, and she likes to show off, it is getting on my nerves, how do I tell her in a nice way to knock it off?

Q.   I dont like the way my bestfriend is lately. Shes been with her current bf, for about 3months now, and i've been with mine for just over a month. But whenever she is with him, practically all the time, she shows off and changes for the worse. I ...

A.   14 August 2008: Hi! My daughter is 14, and she acts differently around her family and friends than she does around her boyfriend. I think she is just trying to be more like him when he's around because she thinks it will make her seem more attractive to him as a ... (read in full...)

I'm never in the mood for sex. I feel like I'm insulting my girlfriend.

Q.   Hey, I’ll cut straight to the point. I have two problems. I’ll start with the low libido soon. I feel like I’m never in the mood for sex or anything else. It frustrates me as my girlfriend looks amazing and I feel as if I’m insulting her by not ...

A.   14 August 2008: It sounds to me that you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Maybe you are rushing things a bit. You could be the type who needs more foreplay or perhaps a certain type of touch. Recall thoughts and fantasies that you have that turn you on ... (read in full...)

She never really had much to say and it's making me miserable!

Q.   I don't know what to do about my girlfriend. We've been together just over 3 months. She's 35 and I'm 33. I'd been single about 8 months before we met. I tell her I love her whenever I feel it, buy her flowers, visit her every day and send her...

A.   14 August 2008: I don't think telling her that you fantasize about other women will help your sex life with her. It might infuriate her, especially if you're fantasizing about your ex or women like your ex. You should be honest and open with her, though, about ... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with my boss

Q.   I fancy my boss like crazy and i WANT to sleep with him, even though hes married and got kids? how do i get him 2 want me too? how shall i act? dress? make up? perfume? hair? ...

A.   14 August 2008: Perhaps the question you should ask is, "What should I be thinking." Have you considered how his wife would feel, or his kids? How they would all cry and feel devistated because you couldn't control your libido? How would you feel if someone ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend judged me because of my past and the fact I lied about it, so he dumped me! My self esteem is on the rocks now.

Q.   I'm so sad now! I've been dealing with a lot of insecurities and negative emotions, because I have low self esteem and lately it had been sabotaging my life, etc... I was just very low and had support mostly from my family and BF because I have n...

A.   14 August 2008: It sounds to me like your ex bf is insecure. He feels intimidated by your past, like he can't measure up. He dwells on the past instead of the present. So many times people want acceptance but are unwilling to accept others; that's your ex. I'm ... (read in full...)

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