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My asexual husband!

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Question - (12 December 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My husband went to the doctor with his erection problems, and the doctor suggested it, that the cause of his impotence, psychological./ Because all his medical tests were fine. Also, he have night erections. He is totally asexual in the moment, at the last few years. He says never thinks about sex, and when we try it he losing his erection right away. I'm losing my patience, what can I do in a situation like that? It is a bit too early to live without sex, so I feel stuck in this really tricky situation. What could be wrong with him, if he never even thinks of sex, not with me or others? He used to have very high sex drive and all this happened very suddenly , 2 years ago... Please give me some ideas. Thanks

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 December 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntWhat happened two years ago to prompt this? If it's all in his head, then it would seem that a trauma caused this? Then too, sometimes we just go "blank" with regards to sex. It can be over-rated at times.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (13 December 2011):

DoubleM agony auntIn my opinion, it would be impossible for us to say. Many medications can cause a lack of libido or physical ability, but if he checked out okay medically, then your hubbie may have some kind of trouble with life in general, his job, financial situation or you. But we can have no way of knowing what.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011):

You know they make these little blue pills nowadays for erectile dysfunction... giving you a boner, even if you aren't sexually aroused.

Try those.

Flynn 24

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