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writes:hey everyone..well my 12 year old sister told me that she likes this senior guy in school who is grade 10..my sister is in grade 7..being an elder sister she looks up to me..i dont know how to handle the situation.i told her its just a crush and that she will get over it but i want to sit and talk to her..kids nowadays can get a little inquisituve and do things which will lead to unnecessary shit..but dont know what to say to her.please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone!!!i hope i can give the right advice to my lil sis..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): Be honest with little sis...You know from your own experience that nothing but heart break or perversion can come from her feelings (That is if the guy feels the same way.) And if the boy has feeling for your sister, then you defenatly need to notify your parents or the police...I don't know what your laws are there. Please know that I will be praying for you. God Bless for seeking advice and help!!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Your the elder sister. Speak to her from the side of experience. When you were 12 didn't you have thoughts or do anything, that being older now you could have given yourself some pretty good advice?
From a guys point of view. I believe I remember some of high school. When I was a senior all I thought about was music, partying, and girls (naked, rather than being clothed).
While she's thinking about hanging out. I'm pretty sure he'd be thinking about doing thigs, hopefully your sister hasn't begun considering.
It's not just the age difference. It's the activity difference.
I hope this helps.
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