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writes: i was talking to an ex on the phone who i am trying to get back with. I have no privacy at home and i am in my mid twenties so you can imagine how horrible that is.My mother must have known i was on the phone and knocks and i knock back giving a hint that i am busy right now. I know for sure nothing urgent was going on.While on the phone with him she actually calls from the house phone. I couldn't believe it. I ignored the call but then suddenly things would go silent between him and i even though we were still connected. I said hello, hello a few times and i think my voice was getting annoyed and angry. I called him back..and a few minutes later my mom calls again and its the same problem.I then i switch over and told her dont call me right now.When i call him back he asked if i was having phone trouble and i said yea i don't know what is going on with it..i said it was almost like it went dead..and he said he could still hear me though and i said i couldnt hear you. But it made me paranoid that maybe i said things kind of loud--the hello and getting annoyed..and maybe he even heard me when i switched over to mother but that is doubtful right? I even brought it up again 2 minutes later or so saying that was weird with my phone and i asked if i was loud? and he said no but i was responding back saying hello helloIt was an annoying situation but i have been trying to show him i am no longer jealous, controlling etc and maybe anger and annoyed easily could be wrapped up in that i am not sure..but it was very annoying and almost bad luck my mother chose to be nosy at that time....Do you think he might have heard something he shouldn't have? (like me being annoyed saying hello, hello...it wasn't like i was screaming but even while hanging up i said what is going on...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2010): Relax. It sounds like you are trying too hard and being a little paranoid.
Your Mom could use a little lecture on not being a pest while you're on the phone.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (19 September 2010):
 Just be honest with him, tell him you weren't sure what was going on and your mum was trying to call you aswell, so if he heard anything that confused him then it was probably you talking to your mum.
He'll probably just laugh and say 'ok then' Have you thought about getting a mobile phone? Gives you another element of privacy if you want to talk to your ex...
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