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writes:well me and my bestfriend like the same guy, and its kind of hard to tell her that i like him, cuz in the last few days she has been really depressed, and i dont really want to be another reason for her to be sad. i really like this guy, and i think he kind of likes me too, cuz i always see him looking at me and it looks like he wants to talk to me but his shy or something. Me and her have kind of already talked bout this and she told that since she saw him first i should back off, bt i thing is that i actually saw him first, bt i dont think this is bout who saw him first is bout who he likes. i really want to get to kno him, but i also dont want to hurt my bestfriend, what do i do??
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reader, kimblebee90  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 I agree with the anonymous comment. Nothin should come between best friends!! Maybe you should just talk 2 her and see if she would really hate it if you dated him, I've liked my best friends boyfriends before! I'm sure something can be worked out. Just help ur mate thru watever she is goin thru n then focus on urself
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reader, lexilou +, writes (1 May 2008):
 I think you should let the guy decide!! That way its not your fault if he chooses you and your friend has to realise that she you cant force this boy to be with her if he's eyeing you up - whether she likes him or not. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): don't let this ruin your friendship, guys come and go friends are forever, and if its going to hurt your friendship maybe just let your friend go for it, I know this will be hard but you don't want to lose your best friend. I've seen stuff like this ruin so many friendships its not even funny you know?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Well i say go for it! you only live once, and she will probably get over it. OR deal with it, and wait until misery guts cheers up a bit
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