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writes:Well I'm 15 and I had this girlfriend back in August 2009. We broke up for a stupid reason, and I still had feelings for her and finally I got over her. Then we stopped talking to one another. We don't even acknowledge one another. Now all of a sudden I've been having dreams about her, and I think I may be getting feelings for her again. Any advice? What should I do?
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reader, ANON2195 +, writes (10 May 2010):
ANON2195 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it was sudden because it was there then it wasn't this all happened in a matter of 5 days but I still liked her then like a month or two later I got over her and that was it. That's why I am confused on why I am having dreams about her but that is true what you are saying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): Hi there, I too have the same issues, although I am 23 and have been in a relationship with a great guy for 4 years now, but I STILL dream about my ex. It is always that we are trying to be together, and the feelings I have in these dreams are very confusing to me when I wake up. I, like you, wonder if these dreams and feelings mean that I am supposed to be with him?! Maybe you should try talking to her, just as a friend. I think that when we love someone, a part of us will always care about how they are, and what they are doing. My ex and I don't talk at ALL either, and I think that has a lot to do with why I dream about him. When you broke up was it very sudden, or was it a long, slow break-up? Because if you were just suddenly not a part of her life anymore you, like me, probably never had time to process it all. When you are in a relationship that person becomes one of your closest friends, then they are just suddenly gone and we are just supposed to move on?! I don't think that it works that way. I guess, in conclusion, I would just say to try talking to her about it. And if you have any specific things that you need to say, say them. And if you feel in your heart that you want to be with her again, ask her if she is feeling the same way, because you only live once, and regrets suck, so just do it. You might not hear what you want to hear from her, but at least you will know that you tried. Good luck.
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