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writes: I was going out with someone for nearly 1 year. We broke up and 6 months after got back together. After another year we got back together. We was really close but I didn't see myself as his girlfriend for life and I knew if I spent the rest of my life with him I would be unhappy. I really cared about him, but I felt like I was with him because i would never find someone that loves me as much as him! And if I broke up with him he would hurt himself. Now I am going out with his best friend and I don't know if I should feel happy or if I am doing the right thing! Me and this guy are happy together but there's this guilt inside of me because I know how angry my ex is going to be, as me and him even talked about marriage. It feels like something bad is going to happen or something will go wrong. Now i am really confused. Should I break up with the new guy before I fall in love or should I let it happen and not care about what everyone says just as long as me and him are happy? I really don't know what to do!
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reader, manda +, writes (14 April 2005):
The simple answer is to choose what make you happy. Don't let guilt get in the way. He will be hurt but that will for him to deal with and he will have help from his family and friends; you are not responsible for him. You also cannot help the who you fall in love with. If it wasn't for this difficult problem time you may still be with someone who is not the one and end up being not quite as happy as you could have been. You sound like you are a very caring and loving person. You must not lead your life through others because you will alway feel guilty for something. It's your life, have fun. x
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