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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for two years and i really love him and i want the best for him but honestly our relationship sucks, he has cheated on me, even with my best friend(ex-friend), and i always forgive him, he is really selfish, i mean sometimes he does nice things, but i am let down by him almost contstantly, i know i deserve better, but i think i am addicted, the longest we have been apart is about two weeks and at first it was really tough i cried for him all the time, but when he decided he missed me i was so happy, even though i knew i would get hurt again, i didnt care, i just wanted to be with him. Whats wrong with me, i know i am better off without him, all he does is play mind games and i know deep down he cant truly care for me or he would heve never done the bad things he did, Help me!!!! Is this common, why cant i just say " see ya" and leave him for good? I need some help! :(
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Sophie, writes (5 February 2005): Your sooo stupid get over it.Look at the facts you have grown apart and you to scared to let go.You think you wont find someone else with that spark you once had.But you have to respect yourself.Dig down into your soul and think very hard how you feel.If hes screwing with your mind get rid of him if you dont hes gonna be always sleeping about and he will eventually treat you like shit.Please fid someone who will love you and treat you nicely dont you want that a healthy guilt free relationship.Soon you will lose yourself dont let a man destroy who you are you so desserve more ive been there.Put yourself first for a change your life doest evolve around him.Go for your dreams.Dont let people walk all over you .
A reader, Starr, writes (5 February 2005): I understand exactly where you are coming from but as women we all need a little help sometimes to do things we know is the best for us.We need to be strong and independent of ourselves.If you continue to go back to him,he'll know that there is no consequence to hurting you and that you will continue to take him back.In other words;if you don't respect yourself enough to put an end to his disrespectful ways,he won't either.Be strong girl it may hurt like hell and it may take a while but you will definitely prove your point and put somethings on his mind while you're at it.To conclude,never get back together with a man who treated you wrong and then dated your "best friend".
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