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Suggestions for swallowing..?

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Question - (5 February 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2005)
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I love oral sex and I want to be able to swallow my husband's cum but just as he is about to cum, I chicken out! I can't help thinking that I will heave and throw up. Is there any way you can help me overcome this problem?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2005):

I was having a hard time swallowing at first. I read in a magazine to prepare you for it first to let him cum in your mouth and almost swallow a little and let the rest pour out onto your partner. I did it and swallowed a little more each time until I could swallow and the drink thing is a must.......Funny what we do for our men.....hehe. Good Luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2005):

Well, I can say I have had the same problem with my husband, and we've been married nearly ten years now. Here's what I do during oral sex, right when he's about to come, I use my left hand while using my mouth.... in a kinda "up and over the tip" motion... go up and down with your hand and let the tip go across the inside of your hand and do this while you are using your mouth, that way when he comes, you can "conveniently" roll your hand over the tip as he comes.... it's worked for me for years, and still has the swallowing affect. Good Luck

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A reader, F, writes (5 February 2005):

Hi,

I give you lots of credit for at least contemplating swallowing - sounds like you really try hard to please him and keep him happy!

Has he told you that this is truly important to him? If you are comfortable allowing him to come in your mouth, that may be very satisfying to him, whether or not you swallow or spit it out. My wife is a bit of a neat freak; she always takes it in her mouth, and then calmly walks to the bathroom to "make a deposit". Most of the women I have been with in the past preferred to spit; this in no way diminishes the experience, at least not for me. Perhaps you are making an issue out of something that is not even important to your husband!

F

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2005):

I used to have the same problem and someone suggested putting your tongue over the head of his penis as he's about to cum, this will stop it shooting into the back of your throat, and make sure you have a drink close to hand so you can have a drink straight after if you dont like the taste - it works for me, good luck

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