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writes:Hi ive got a bit of a problem. Whenever me and my new girlfriend go for sex I can not get it up when about to use a condom, it will not work for me. If we do it without one im perfectly fine and I easily get one up fastly.Any solution ???
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reader, shanewarn +, writes (19 February 2012):
There are a number of treatments for erection problems. Doctors usually start with lifestyle changes and medicines. They usually don't advise surgery or other treatments unless those first steps don't help.Treatment can include:• Making lifestyle changes, such as avoiding tobacco, drugs, and alcohol. It may also help to talk about the issue with your partner, do sensual exercises, and get counseling.• Finding and then stopping medicines that may be causing the problem. In some cases you can take a different medicine that does not cause erection problems.• Taking prescription medicine that can help you get erections. These include pills such as sildenafil (Viagra), tadalafil (Cialis), and vardenafil (Levitra). Check with your doctor to see if it is safe for you to take one of these medicines with your other medicines. These can be dangerous if you have heart disease that requires you to take nitroglycerin or other medicines that contain nitrates.• Taking medicines and getting counseling for depression or anxiety.• Using vacuum devices or getting shots of medicine into the penis.• Having surgery to place an implant in the penis.
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reader, ajrockz +, writes (24 September 2008):
dont use a jonny if it makes you lose your boner!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): Putting on a condom can be quite a passion killer, but you could incorporate it into your lovemaking routine by getting your girlfriend to put it on for you.
A good time to put the thing on is when engaged in a '69er', assuming you've got to that stage in your relationship.
Have a look at www.videojug.com - there is an awful lot of information on the site on just about every aspect of everyday life, explained in a straighforward way, sometimes dead serious and at other times lighthearted, and all on short video clips. A broadband connection is essential though, or it'll cost the person who pays the phone bill a fortune!
Phil
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reader, Sandman  +, writes (30 September 2007):
 Hold long is it taking you to to get the condom on? Sometimes, the time it takes to get the condom, open the package, find the correct side to put the condom on and roll down the penis is enough time for the erection to go away.
Solutions: well, you can have some of this process already killed by having the condom already opened. You can take the condom out and find the correct side your penis will go in - then put the condom back in the wrapper until it's ready for use. Then when you need it, just pull it out the wrapper and roll it down.
You can also learn to multitask - meaning doing two things at once. You can be giving her oral, kissing, sucking/licking her breasts, etc. while putting on the condom. That way you're doing sometihng that's arousing to you and her which will help to keep your erection.
Of course, you could wait until your married - then you wouldn't need a condom at all.
Hope this helps.
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