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LDR but I want to have sex! What do I do?

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Question - (14 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2012)
A female Nigeria age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have a boyfriend,i truly love him and he luvs me too,we are both virgins and we're planing to spend our life together...the problem is that we are in a long distant relation,recently i started feeling very horny,cant keep ma mind off sex,i really want to have sex with him despite the fact that he's scared that he might hurt me when we have sex for the first time and not with any other guy because since i've met the love of my life i have never like any other guy but the problem is that my baby is in a far away place...please i need advices on what i can do

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2012):

Well, if you aren't already masturbating you could probably start. Try phone sex with him it can be satisfying.

No offense but a ldr at age 18-21 will be difficult to maintain unless you have a specific time frame for being together.

And at that age it's easy to believe you've met your true love but there are other true loves out there who you CAN be with. It will be very hard, but unless you'll be together relatively soon it may be easier to see other people but keep in touch. If he really is the one and only you can begin seeing each other again when you are closer to each other.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 December 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntGo meet him or have him come visit you? If you're planning to spend your life with him then seeing him in person probably is your top priority.

If there's no possibility of you ever meeting him in person for years then maybe you might reconsider your devotion to him.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 December 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntWell first off taking away the aspect of sex lets have a look at your relationship. Have you both made plans on when in the future you both will be together? Have you spend decent amount of time together as a couple, and how often do you both see each other? This relationship won't work unless there is a plan that ensures you will both be closer together. So you both need to talk about that. As a physical relationship is just as important as an emotional one.

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