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Ladies... Fingers in your mouth during "passion". Yes or no?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 17 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Lets say you are in the heat of the moment and he is being very passionate during sex.....

Do you find it a turn on when your partner puts one or two fingers in your mouth to suck on?

Or do you find it a bit weird?

Of course, this is all during sex whether it be vaginal or him performing oral on you.

thanks

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A female reader, CLM United States +, writes (1 April 2010):

Let us all know - if you have changed your mind now that you've read the comments. Did our comments help?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

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i think the anonymous reader said it best.....i was not talking about it being shoved....hey i wouldn't like it either, all i'm talking about is it being just in there. It could be the tip of the finger in her mouth, but not being shoved. i hope you catch my drift.

any way feel free to add more if you wish

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntI'm into it!! You can't shove your fingers into her mouth, don't force it... because as you can tell, some people like it and some people don't! So, ease into it... brush your fingers across her lips and see how she reacts to it.

Test the waters, or talk to her about it. Some girls LOVE it and get totally turned off, while some react exactly the opposite. Enjoy, sweetness!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

Nobody said anything about pushed or shoved ! ! ! !

It is romantic...... If the actions are sincere and someone cares so much about the other they really want to show it....... CM

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

Stayc63088 agony auntI would be disgusted if he stuck his fingers in my mouth... Not speaking for everyone though. I have sucked on a guy's fingers before, but shoving them in my mouth would be a hell no. Just let her know you like it. I'm sure she will be happy to oblige.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

totally sexy !!!

I love sucking his fingers and looking deep into his eyes !!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 March 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI can think of better places for those fingers.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

I know I'm not a ladie, but it is a huge turn on if my girl does this. I usually let her initiate it though.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (26 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntDont mind as long as it is brief - like 3- 5 seconds, and not repeated more than 2-3 times.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

This is what I think. You really liked someone who you have seen or made love to in sooo, sooo long that it hurt. Finally, you get to be with her and have some time alone. She also wanting you very badly - could not contain herself and was very loud during the great love making. So, to slow things down a bit..... she began to suck your finger, keeping her from being so loud. Now, this probably upset you and you ran fast blazing a trail behind. Poor girl does'nt know what hit her - you left in such speed. Love making should be passionate - sometimes slow and sometimes a quickie. But most of all, never ever be that type of guy who is a stiff as a board and all you can do is move in and out. She cared about you enough to show you in many different ways. Some guys have a toe fettish and they always go for the toes in the mouth. That might be a little weird - but that is how much the person cares. You really must get passionate about love making - it can be done many different ways and it's not wrong unless it physically hurts. I wish you all the best. Carol.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

I find that weird. I dont like anything being stuffed into my mouth like that. If I voluntarily suck on the fingers, fine, but having them pushed up in my mouth is a turn off. In general I just dont like sucking on fingers too much.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2010):

Miamine agony auntopps.. very sexy, but also dangerous for the man, I can bite if the feelings are too extreme.. :P

If his mouth, his penis, and the rest of his body are clean enough to kiss, and his hands are clean enough to touch my body, I don't really see what the problem is. Confused!!!!

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2010):

Miamine agony auntSEXY!!!! LOL..:)

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2010):

BettyBoup agony auntNot for me personally, but suggest it to your girl, you never know she might also find it a turn on. I know some people like having their fingers sucked on, which can be a turn on during foreplay. Ask her how she feels about it. Even if she finds it weird she might do it to please you as its a pretty harmless request. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

What about you? Do you find it weird? Why would you ask this question?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2010):

I'd hate that!

What if I jerked forward and then they'd be down my throat... and then you'd get covered in vomit.

You could always try stroking her face and seeing if she chooses to try and suck your fingers.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010):

no

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