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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2006): Huh man, you'd better have sex more often. So it wouldn't be an event for your exs. I do feel sorry for your wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): Why does anyone feel the need to note these things down..am i the only one that if im in love with someone i remember every little detail in my head?? i find this very weird and concerning..i also find talking about these strange things about your exs with your wife is very concerning as well..yeah we all want to know our partners past but there is a line on how much you tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): My husband doesn't want me to keep track. We do it to much to even try. He told me in conversation. He thought other woman did it, but I din't believe so. It was no big deal. We were curious if other girls did this. I think he just had some strange girlfriends in his past.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 This letter is too stupid, what a wasted space.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): No, I was not the instigator of this weird occurrence. I found it odd myself.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (17 October 2005):
 I think the overwhelming response here says it all!
Weird. But what is even more concerning is why you are discussing such sexual histories with your wife. It doesn't sound like a very romantic marriage to be honest! I hope you don't elaborate about previous conquests or anything like that.
You are wrong in thinking all girls do that. Why would they? Some women do actually not only find physical pleasure from the expereince of making love but also emotional intimacy too and a woman can't write that down, can she?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (17 October 2005):
 I've been around the traps a long time and I have *never* heard of something like this. It strikes me as peculiar, juvenile and more than a little puzzling.
Why would you want to keep score? Who are you competing with?
No, this is definitely not common.
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reader, wishes +, writes (17 October 2005):
 Who cares who is right? Why are you making such a big deal of it. I right down everytime me and my partner have sex, but only cause Im an organised freak who loves lists. Everyone that I have told this to thinks Im strange, but who cares!?!
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reader, Dr Vincenzo +, writes (17 October 2005):
Mate, that is weird! I have never known a woman to record sex occurrences, and neither have I ever heard a guy say that about a girl.
Why would you tell your wife that anyway? Sounds to me like you might be the instigator of this weird occurrence and you're trying to get your wife to do it as some sort of "tally" you can look back on.....
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reader, not again +, writes (17 October 2005):
I've never heard anything like that before in my life! It does sound completely weird and pointless to me, but hey, whatever turns you on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): I can only talk for myself and women I know of and NO...none of them, nor myself have ever kept track. Why is it so important that your wife need to keep a tally of this. Could it be, your previous exe gf's may have done this, because you wanted them to? Just a thought.
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reader, Ellen +, writes (17 October 2005):
its weird girls dont do that
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): that is totally weird! I have never heard of women doing this. Sex with your partner should be more about the connection you both feel and the communication between you as opposed to keeping a score/tally of what you are doing.
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