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writes:I just wanted to know opinions on a partner breaking off a long term relationship (15 yrs +) to immediately start a new relationship, thats if you were cheating. What are the pros and cons of starting such a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 HiI think, this i not cheating and it won't be wrong. But my own opinion is, that one should wait for some time. This is to get some distance from the former relationship and to find back to yourself.I myself would feel like a consolation next to a boyfriend who just finished with his longtime-love. And I would question his love to me.I just think one should be able to be on its own and manage his own time and problems and so on, because in a relationship there are always two. If you are able be on your own, you will have a better relationship - not beeing in need of someone else but be with someone else because you love this person. You will also better know what you want and who will be the right preson on your side.Personally I also think that to get in love with someone, you need to get to know this person and this takes some time. Yes, you will never fully know a person, but if you meet regularly, after three month or so you will know much more about the person as you know on the first day you met her.This may sounds a little confusing - but I hope you will understand what I meant to say. Hope it will help a little!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Rebound. thats the first thing that springs to mind. Not saying it wont work. I went from my marriage (was with him 5 years in total) to someone new straight away & was with him 9 years.
Why do you ask?
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