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writes:My husband had been in prison for 9 months. He recently got out in June. We've had sex over 60 times since he got out and now its just boring. Can you all give me some ideas that might excite our sex life?
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reader, Uncle Trev  +, writes (9 August 2007):
There are a number of positions, a number of fantasies, differant clothing, hard & gentle, injecting a bit more romance.
Sounds as if it is something like a wham bam thank you maam and that day in and day out can be very boring. Sounds like you need some variety in your love lives. There are a number of books, dvds, and videos that can be very useful but more important than this sitting both dawn and having a good ol chat about how you feel will surely do some good here.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (8 August 2007):
If you are going to depend on sex to keep your relationship alive and healthy, it's not going to work as you have soon discovered. Along with Sexual-BurnOut, that you both are now going through. You two are also going through Relational-Burnout a side-affect of sexual dependency. You need to cut down on your bed time, and smell the roses of other togetherness activities. Wow! Sex 60 plus times in 9,months. Gee! He's well on his way towards Sexual-Meltdown, Bet, He is already having erection problems, getting it up or keeping it up,if not, He soon will have ED,Erection-Dysfunction,PDQ. You have a genital relationship,as I see it, but not much else going for the two of you.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (8 August 2007):
He might just need some recovery. It seems logical that he's want to have raging animal sex right when he gets out, but life in the pen, even in less than a year, might have taken a psychological toll. Give him another month or two unless things get significantly worse.
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