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writes:I am really jealous. It's really driving my boyfriend and I apart. He has a few female friends and I find it hard trusting him with them on his own. I know I have no reason to as he really is amazing but I can't help how I feel. I get all tight inside and scared and as if they're gonna make a move on him. I can't help it but I'm fed up of crying everytime.Please don't tell me I don't trust him, because I do, so don't tell me I don't, I just don't trust the girls.Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with this?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 October 2011):
 Ok so you trust him.Since YOU trust HIM what do you think HE will do when these girls put the moves on him?Jealousy is an emotion rooted in insecurity... why are you feeling insecure about this?the reason I ask is so that you can figure out what's causing these feelings. once you know what's causing the feelings you can fix it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2011): If it helps, I am a woman and have several guy friends that I am very close with but would never see as more than friends. At the same time, I would resent any boyfriend of mine or girlfriend of theirs who had a problem with our friendship. That has never happened to me because I have always introduced people I was dating to my guy friends and have gotten to know their girlfriends. So maybe you should just spend more time with your boyfriend and his female friends and become friends with them and then you'll be less paranoid.
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