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writes:Hi every one, I'm a 45 year old man. I'm extremely sad and depressed since last 4 years, when I lost my job, I sold out all my properties to meet the life expenses. but the most tragic incident happened to me was that my wife got changed, she started hating me, insulting me and refused to carry on marital relationship with me. I tried my best to keep my family intact because of my 13 years old son and 17 and 16 years old daughters, but my wife always insults, abuses, disrespects me, which feels me very sad and worthless.I tried every effort to make her happy but she hates me, what should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 April 2010):
Leave. While the good times were there, she was happy to reap the rewards. Now it's all gone, she's showing her true colours. I understand that she might be frustrated, but in no way is she bothered by what you're feeling or thinking. She really should be supporting you, not just insulting you. She isn't worth the time, and your children deserve a break from this mess as well, as her treating you this way will really be affecting them badly. You don't deserve this treatment, and it's nor helpful at all for you to be there. You need to get away from this woman.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (30 April 2010):
 At the end of the day if you want to keep your children content and happy, staying with their mother is not doing it. It must really upset them seeing what's happening to yours and your wifes relationship, the bitterness and the hate.. If you were to go your seperate ways then all that would stop and your children would see your mother and eventually you happy with your lives, which will have a very positive impact on their lives. For some people depending on the circumstances, they're better off out of the relationship. It's something to think about huh?
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reader, princessofGod43  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Can you take her on a small get away or take her to a lake or park for lunch...and just ask her what you need to do to win her heart again? This is the only advice i can offer ...something happened to her heart with you...ask her what can i do to fix this i really love you...but be prepared for what and how she will say it...be heart prepared she may still insult you but you should maintain your cool and maintain your peace in the matter...sometimes as women we have such a deep pain in our hearts about something that it manifests into anger and when we insult it means pain and disappointments have happened or have set in...so pray before doing this and stick this moment out and tell her...i am willing to fix this...i hope you have another job or other income already...this hate is a passion and that can be turned around with love and patience and the willingness to do the work involved...Peace and Blessings!
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