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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:So 2 days ago I met this guy at a church retreat and we really just clicked and he asked for my number so I gave it to him. By the way he lives in another city like an hour away from me. He texted me yesterday after we got home and we were talking non-stop and he asked if we could hook up and I said ya so now we're dating but we face timed each other and I didn't know at all what to say to him. Is it too soon to be dating if I've only known him for 2 days?!?!??
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 February 2014):
 What did your Mom think about this? We are now more than 2 days out from this situation. :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 February 2014):
 At your age an hour away is insurmountable to having a relationship. You can be friendly with him, but do not cut yourself off from OTHER boys you may meet locally that you can get to know.
DATING is not the same as having a boyfriend. YOU date to find a boyfriend. DATING means… boy asks you out, you go out, he treats you nicely (NEVER asking for physical favors or sexy pictures) and you think about maybe dating him more… once you realize you like a boy more than any other you can consider him becoming your boyfriend.
If you are 13 you are very young for dating
If you are 15 you are within the age range I would find acceptable for dating, but with a boy 1 hour away at your age it's probably not going anywhere serious.
What does mom think?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 February 2014):
What did your Mom say when you asked her? I know mine would have probably said, too much too soon, and that at 13, I was a bit young to have a boyfriend, but that was my Mom for you.
Why not just keep him as a friend and not put a label on things until you know him better. You've only known him a very short time and don't really know all that much about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2014): kay, let me explain the difference between having a boyfriend and dating someone. dating someone is going out maybe for a nice meal or a film, and chatting to get to know each other. having a boyfriend is when you've gone past that, and your doing things together more confidently. at the moment your dating him. keep talking to him, and find out more about him. it takes more then two days. more like two months. gud luck x!
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reader, N91  +, writes (17 February 2014):
 Yes, way too soon. Also way too young to be trying a distance relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2014): You're not really dating if he lives an hour away in another city.
He's too young to drive, and I don't think his parents are going to let him come visit you that far. Two days is too soon to call someone your boyfriend. You can become friends in an instant.
For now, you're new friends and you communicate by text message. You're not dating.
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