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writes:in basic terms i guess my question is how do you get a guy to notice you? i havent had a date in several years and i am going to be moving soon and i want to kind of start over w/ the whole guy thing. ive been told by friends that im a great person, funny and easy to talk to... i admitt that im not the greatest looking girl in the world, but i'm not totally ugly either. i am shy at times, so maybe thats my problem, and im very afraid of getting hurt again. does anyone have any help they can give me?
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (14 June 2007):
I think the most important thing is to be yourself, and if your funny and easy to talk to i shouldnt think you will have any problem. I think always taking pride in your appearence and try to look your best is always good. Not just to attract men, but it feel it makes you feel better about yourself. If i know i look ok on the outside, i feel like i can let the inside shine out to. You sound like a great person, so only settle for the best x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): Just be yourself! this is the best advice:)
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reader, spirited +, writes (14 June 2007):
Start out by going out with friends. You'll be more relaxed with familiar people around and they can "wing" for you and let you know who's eyeing you and who you should run from.
And most importantly, BE YOURSELF. Don't worry about what you don't have, thing about what you do. I'm sure you have much to offer, and conversation is extremely attractive to men (those worthy of speaking to, anyway).
Have a great time, and soon you'll have so many that you'll have to peel them off you.
Good luck & God Bless!
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reader, NuVu +, writes (14 June 2007):
I'm sure your quite pretty. Its just that our culture makes everyone feel unattractive compared to what we see on TV and in magazines. If your in reasonabley good shape (not obese) i can safely say that at least 80% of men will find you physically attractive. The rest is just about smiling, having fun, and being sincere.
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