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*h oh
writes:ok theres this girl right, she is nearly 16 and im not even 14 yet my b day is 27th of august, and ive been trying to get close with her like some ppl on this site hav been tellin me, but im afraid ive been talkin to her too much... i dont wanna luk over enthusiastic to get to know her but im not sure if i am, i talked to her and hav left her about 6 different wall post on facebook and about 3 picture comments, you see i met her because of a wedding and i was commenting about her dress that day... am i getting too excited? should i hold bak a little bit b4 she actually replies to any of my wall posts?
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reader, lovehate +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Let it die downfor a while. I know it may be hard but don't talk to her for a couple of weeks, cool it down. But certainly don't hold back in the future. Just don't over do it.
I hope this helped xxx
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reader, uh oh +, writes (5 August 2007):
uh oh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is is that it isnt in e mails and she dus reply, i hav been askin her if she wants to come out with me as well coz im getting reli bored
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reader, advice 247 +, writes (5 August 2007):
 stop talking to her let it dye down for a couple of weeks then email her again
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2007): 9 is a little excessive. You could have left 1 & see if she gets back to you. Yes you're getting too excited. Do you really think she'd like you, being that you're 13 & she's 16? I have a feeling you're going to get let down & you're expecting too much too soon. Focus on other things unless you actually know she is interested in you.
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reader, flawedbynature  +, writes (5 August 2007):
You don't want to appear overly excited, she'll take this in the wrong way. I suggest waiting for her to respond to your wall posts. Posting too many times makes it seem like you're going a little bit too fast.
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reader, GreenTea +, writes (5 August 2007):
Yeah hold back. You don't want to scare her off :)
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reader, Emilie +, writes (5 August 2007):
 Hey, Honey chill! she will reply soon enough if you just wait. The age difference might prove problematic but im sure things will work out fine. your doing just great hun! Ask if shes got msn etc if you havent already and chat to her in a friendly manner over that :) By all means hold back a lil if you feel your over doing it but im sure she just feels your being friendly :) Keep me posted i hope everything works out well and if you need any more girl advice just send me an email through dear cupid :) Good luck! xxx
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reader, hugs2muchgal +, writes (5 August 2007):
 yes. hold back. if you have posted 6 times and she hasn't even posted once, it will make you look desperate and either a- give away your feelings or b-scare the girl off slightly.It's hard to wait, I understand, but don't worry. Soon she'll be posting back and you can try to get to know her even better. =)cheers and good luck.-Hugsps- the picture comments are fine, no need to worry about those seeming desperate, just wall posts you need to watch.
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reader, sweeite +, writes (5 August 2007):
i think you sud hold bk just a little just until she sees the comments you have left her and then after she gets bk 2 u i think u sud tel her hw u feelm only she cn tell u weather u sud bck away or not. goodm luck xxxxx
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