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He is only a child but I am nearly an adult. What do I do??

Q.   Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, almost 18. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a guy who is 15 (who will turn 16 two months after I turn 18.) I feel really bad about the age gap but he said he doesnt care what age I am because he loves...

A.   22 August 2007: hi there, age gapa aint really as bad as people make it out to be, i say that you should wait till he reaches 16 as he will be at the rite age any ways it wont be that bad say when your 24 and his 22 it wont be as bad i say wait for him to reac... (read in full...)

When he comes with a condom on, should you feel it? Worried it broke!

Q.   when having sex with a condom should u feel the man cuming because i did and worrying incase it split but i seen the cum in it afterwords and he said it didnt please help ...

A.   11 August 2007: you need to be sure that you felt his cum and not your own as if it was his i suggest you take the morning after pill if you dnt want to get pregnant but if it was yours then you should be fine if his telling you it never split then you dnt have ... (read in full...)

Having trouble understanding the whole ovulation process.

Q.   Hi, im courtney me and my boyfriend are trying to get pregant and we think i might already be but we are not sure so i took a test at the clinic and it came up negative but the doctor said it would be to soon to tell and now i just started bleeding ...

A.   11 August 2007: hi im no expert but i would wait unrill its been two weeks from you aint seen your period as it will tell. about being pregant while on ur perido that can happen.... (read in full...)

His ex gf is telling me bad things about my bf. Whom do I believe?

Q.   I am in love with my partner but his ex came up to me the other day and said that he beat her, got her in in debt, pregnant, etc. He says it's all lies and that she wants him back. They have been split up for 2 years. What do I do? I also have a ...

A.   10 August 2007: i think that either one of them can be lying, but the only thing i can say is that if you trust your bf then you sud believe wat his saying but it dont mean you have to forget what his ex gf is saying, his ex mite just b saying that because she mte ... (read in full...)

He's going on holiday for three weeks and i won't hear from him.

Q.   I'm going on holiday for almost three weeks.. and im terrified my boyfriend will lose interest durin this time..he cnt text..i can send stuff to him but i wnt hear frm him for ages.until the third week when he said he'd send a letter and birthday ...

A.   9 August 2007: you have nothing to worry about. ok it wil hurt that you wont hear from him but as time goes by it will be easier, if this boy really likes you you have nothing to worry about. them distance makes the heart grow founder. ... (read in full...)

I've left her 9 facebook comments! I don't want to seem over enthusiastic. Should I hold back?

Q.   ok theres this girl right, she is nearly 16 and im not even 14 yet my b day is 27th of august, and ive been trying to get close with her like some ppl on this site hav been tellin me, but im afraid ive been talkin to her too much... i dont wanna luk ...

A.   5 August 2007: i think you sud hold bk just a little just until she sees the comments you have left her and then after she gets bk 2 u i think u sud tel her hw u feelm only she cn tell u weather u sud bck away or not. goodm luck xxxxx... (read in full...)

is it safe to have anal sex during pregnancy

Q.   is it safe to have anal sex during pregnancy?...

A.   4 August 2007: i have heard that it is fine to have sex during pregancy but to be honest i heard that its feels a lot better ... (read in full...)

We are suppose to get married next year but how can I get past feeling hurt and betrayed?

Q.   My boyfriend's ex-wife called me and told me that my boyfriend may have another child and that he is going to court next month about it. When I asked him about it he said he was waiting for the right time to tell me. We are suppose to get married ...

A.   4 August 2007: thats bad he if can hide that from you then im sure he can hide many more things from you. i think you should put the wedding on hold till you and only you feel is the right time to tie the knot ... (read in full...)

I want to break up with my gf but am having a hard time...I can't get away from her! Any advice?

Q.   My girl and i have been going out for 1.5 years and it was awsome but i lost feelings for her and now she is all lovey and all ... i called to break up with her many times but like she will just start crying and it doesnt bother me thta she crys ...

A.   1 August 2007: hi, i know it must be hard but i think you should just be honest with her because the longer you leave it the harder it will get. take care and good lck ... (read in full...)

It there any way my sister can stop talking in her sleep?

Q.   dear cupid my sister sleep talks in her sleep and does not know what she saying. is their any way of stoping this?...

A.   28 July 2007: the best thing i would say to do is tell her what she has been saying, and also i think she can go and see her gp to see if they can give her anything, good luck xx ... (read in full...)

Sex was too painful for my virgin girlfriend so we stopped; how can I help her stop feeling like she failed me?

Q.   Me and my gf decided we were gonna have sex last other night but when we started it was hurting her and she said she wanted to stop for now so we did. I told her we could stop at any point and that i wouldn't think any less of her. We have been ...

A.   28 July 2007: i think you two both need to talk and maybe the reason it never happen because you two were both thining of how to do it, you both need to make sure your bot relaxed before anything can happen, tell your gf hw much she means to you and that it can ... (read in full...)

I'm really under weight. I'm scared, but I won't eat.

Q.   im really under wieght i come in about 6 stone maxium i dont fit in to anything im below a size 0 in the uk im scared but i wont eat...what should i do?...

A.   28 July 2007: hi its sweetie here, i think you need to go and see your gpto find out whats going on in side your body, do you want to eat? how long this been going on? what made you stop eating? ... (read in full...)

This guy I like says he loves someone else, but lately he wants to be close to me...

Q.   Hey theres this guy i really like, but im really confussed, he says his true love is some other girl, but she turned him down. We have always been really close but recently he keeps hugging me and wanting to be close to me. Weve just been camping ...

A.   28 July 2007: hi, its sweetie here, i think you need to ask this bot weather or not he wants something to happen or not because he is confussing you, and if he saus that he just wants to be friends then you have to make sure that you both stick to it. also if he ... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we're engaged or married before we lose our virginity; what can we do in the meantime?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. ...

A.   16 July 2007: hey bbe, ok so you both wanna wait ok thats fine, how ever you dont need to have sex to have a good time, have you ever heard of 4 play, y not try playing around with each others body and kissing each other all over, you could feel her and how ... (read in full...)

Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.

Q.   hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy ...

A.   15 July 2007: the last person that answered my question thank you ever so much i would like to keep in touch with you as a friend is that ok ... (read in full...)

The man I'm dating lives 320 miles away from me, can this work?

Q.   hi, it's me again. Long distance relationships can they work? The man I like lives about 320 miles away from me. He said it's not a problem but this concerns me ....

A.   15 July 2007: hi its sweetie, i think it can work i was in a long distance relationhip for 3 years and i was ith him another 3 after . the way i see it anything can work if you both want it to. xx ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is moving out after discovering a MySpace account I created for the purpose of chatting with others.

Q.   My girlfriend is moving out after discovering a MySpace account I created for the purpose of chatting with others. She feels that I was planing to go further than just chatting. This is from someone who stayed in touch with a past love for 10 ...

A.   15 July 2007: my boyfriend has a myspace account and at 1st i was so un happy about it as i also said he was on there for girls but then when i saw what people do on there i open an account of my own i dont use it and aint got no friends but i just did it. maybe ... (read in full...)

Why would he not feel that other men might be interested in me?

Q.   I asked my boyfriend if he ever thought that other men were attracted to me. He said no and said that he felt that other men would not be attracted to me. He never even gave it a thought. I see women who are attracted to him and he is always ...

A.   15 July 2007: im sorry but what are you doing with him, he is only saying that because he is scared that if he loses you will find someone new, trust me love i aint seen you but you sound so nice and good looking. as long as you feel good in yourself then thats ... (read in full...)

He's leaving because my daughter and her baby need to move in with us for a while.

Q.   I live with my boyfriend of 2 and half years. My daughter has recently had trouble and needs my help, she wants to come and stay with me and my other three kids and my boyfriend said no way, it's bad enough having three in the house never mind ...

A.   15 July 2007: I agree with you kids should always come 1st and your partner should know that, plus it aint forever its only for a while. it will hurt but let him go and in time he will realise that what he did was stupid and wrong. is there any were eles your ... (read in full...)

Shes 14, I am 16. Is it ok to date her?

Q.   a girl i like said she would go out with me if i ever asked her out but she knows i wouldn't because she's 14 and i'm 16. So is she too young for me? She flirts and talks alot to me and tells me she loves me. ...

A.   15 July 2007: i can see why your asking this question, i think if you and this girl really like each other then you should ask her out, the only thing i would say is dont have sex until she has reached 16 as we all know that against the law to have sex with an ... (read in full...)

I didn't bleed during my first time, am I still a virgin?

Q.   i had sex with my ex fiance for many times but i didnt bleed! does this mean im still virgin? because we separated and im afraid of the future, i dont want to tell any body that i had sex.how can i hide this thing from my future fiance? other than ...

A.   15 July 2007: not all people bleed when they 1st have sex as everyones body is different, all i can say to this is dont worry about weather or not you bleed as you are no longer a virgin from the first time you have sex. take care xx ... (read in full...)

Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.

Q.   hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy ...

A.   14 July 2007: thank you all for your comments. they have all help me see it better. xxxxx much love ... (read in full...)

I'm going to a funeral - what should I wear and what flowers should I send?

Q.   I am going to a funeral next week. I have not been to many of them(lucky me). I would like some tips on two things. What to wear and what type of flowers to send. There are internet sites with this info but it is nice to get more personal pointers....

A.   11 July 2007: my nan passed away lst yeah at her funeral i wore smart black bottoms and a black top. I carried a single black rose... (read in full...)

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