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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think my mom doesn't like to talk to me. When I talk to her most of the time she always scowls at me. Also when I talk to my dad she also scowls at me too. However, my mom doesn't scowl at my sister when she talks to her. How come my mom only does it to me? What is her problem? I didn't do anything wrong to my mom, I obey her. I'm afraid to ask my mom why she scowls at me because she has a temper problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Histrange!! how long has this been going on? i notice the word OBEY not very happy with that word...especially for someone 20 ish??????? when you can i would seriously consider your independence...get your own flat....you do not have to put up with bad tempers just because the person is your mother.....please dont blame your sister either it may not be her fault....maybe your mum and dad are both scowlers because they are miserable by nature but you dont have to be like them nor do you have to put up with this horrible enviroment. There is a happy world out side your family and do not be made to feel guilty or bad about yourselfbecause of others negative behaivour. Flourish in a world of colour not shadow. Try not to feel to hurt by their behaivour and above all be true to yourself if you are at fault somewhere then say sorry..if not leave and visit at your conveineience...and if they remain the same ...tell them you will return when they welcome you with a smile...good luck....
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reader, lonely101  +, writes (3 July 2008):
Is there anything else going on? Maybe a sibling blamed something on you? How long has this been going on? The best solution is is talk to her, even if its just in passing or joking around. she may not even realize shes doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): hmmm
this is a hard one.... No one will be able to answer these questions because we have no idea whats going on in your moms head.... I'm sorry this is happening to you.... but you should talk to her....
try to think of maybe somthing you did that may of upset her....or maybe go to some sort of theraphy or just flat out ask yout mother whats going on
I can't think of anyhting else to tell you... I hoped it helped a bit.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): she is jealous. some mothers have kids for the wrong reasons, and for some reason, she is jealous of you. how old is your sister? if she is young, your mother may treat her the same way she treats you. if older, is she married or does she have a boyfriend? there also might be a personality conflict between you two. perhaps you remind her of someone in the family she dislikes.
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