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female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Hi I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and I've never had a boyfriend but a few links and crushes. A little while ago, I started finding one of my closest guy friends attractive, and it was really awkward for me because I've known him for so long. I was super confused and I've kinda accepted I have a crush on him, but I was unsure if he liked me back. For a while, he was sending me mixed signals, and now I'm super confused. can you help me? A few months ago we started making really intense eye contact, and he would look away and never talk to me about it, even though we are friends. Then he was super jealous when I was hanging with my other guy friend, who is like a brother to me, and didn't speak to me for ages. We have also had a few awkward silences which never happens!! overall until about a month ago i had no clue where we were... then he started teasing me more than normal, and being super kind and doing things for me without me having to ask or even hint about anything to him.Also i keep catching him staring way too much (obviosly i dont really mind though). this one time i was chatting with him and our mate, and i was facing her but i could feel him staring at me the entire time and then he looked away as soon as i looked at him. i often see him when i walk into a room look over to me more than once, not very subtly, whilst talking to someone. also he tries ot make me laugh which is normal but he never used to as much. he's also commented inadvertedly on things for example last week he randomly said, when i was really near, "someone's hair smells really nice, of shampoo", whihc i know sounds ridiculous, but its often a comment people make about me, and i was the only person close enough to him, and my hair was over my face as i was bent down and very close to his face. we keep making intense eye contact and i often find him staring at me and he keeps giving me smiles and i dont know what it means. does he like me despite being jsut a friend for ages? please let me know what you think and what i should do xxx
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 May 2018):
 He has a crush on you. Maybe he didn't ask you out because you had been friends for a long time. In case it won't work out, he doesn't want to lose you as a friend. You can just ask hypothetically whether he likes someone or is interested in dating in general. If the answer is positive, then tell him you like him.
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