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I've been rejected by a girl for the first time in my life. how should I feel?

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Question - (1 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *lfredo1400 writes:

ok before i tell me story, if your one of those sentimental femminist types, please dnt even bother responding cuz i dont wana hear it. So for the first time in my life one got away. So I had 3 girlfriends, and I was having a bit of trouble keeping up with them even though 2 of them new about each other. I was trying to go out with this puerto rican girl and we went on a date and she was life off me HARD, but I didnt have time to go out with her cuz i was so caught up wit my other girls, and now wen i dumped 2 of my girls i tried to holla at her and she turned me down. Ive never been rejected before. wtf is wrong with this girl?. she messed up my perfect reccord. how should I feel? I could probobly still get her but I told her I wouldnt talk to her anymore and im to proud to go bak no my word. wat do the real players out there reccommend I do.

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A female reader, smiliek Australia +, writes (2 September 2010):

smiliek agony auntummm yeah, she obviously wasn't stupid... You seem to think girls will stick around for a guy like you.. You wanna be a player? Well, players dont have feelings. You miss out, get rejected, you simply move on to the next one. Guys like you cant or dont want to have feelings for girls. You just want sex. The excitement of having more then one woman going for you. One day you'll wake up alone, and stay that way. Most girls wouldn't go near a player with a 10ft pole. Stop acting as tho you're god's gift to women, cause honestly when girls realise wat you're doing, you're gonna lose alot more then one chick.

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A female reader, LLindy87 United States +, writes (2 September 2010):

LLindy87 agony auntso you said you didn't want to hear feminist crap, but what you really don't want to hear is someone telling you advice that you DON'T want to hear.

you want support, you want to hear that you're not doing anything wrong. well you are.

I'm not a feminist, but I am a person and this girl is better then you. She can do better than you. Why? Because you're cheating on three girls. You clearly don't care about their feelings, its all a game to you. A conquest, a victory.

I'm sure now that you want this girl back. Why? Because you can't have her now. She said no.

I don't feel bad for you, perhaps it will do you some good to have a stain on your perfect record.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2010):

She wasn't stupid enough to wait around. There's nothing wrong with her. If you can't play the game, don't play the game.

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