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writes:I've been happily married for 4 years now but in the last 12 months I've had a very strong urge to cross dress again and have been dressing as often as possible. I've been dressing on and off for almost 30 years now and it's always going to be a part of me and I would love to be able to 'come out' to my wife but I know she wouldn't accept it. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, penat +, writes (4 July 2007):
I would bring this question up in general conversation, maybe when watching a t.v programme when a man dresses up or you heard of someone who does this and tell her what you think about it and ask her for her views, for example. then you could find out what your wife thinks about things like this with out coming out direct. Her reply should help you make up your mind.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (4 July 2007):
 If you carry on doing this without your wife knowing it's possible that she will find out one day by accident as you always here of these things happening.
Would it not be better to hear it from you then finding out you have been hiding it from her, maybe you will be surprised by her reaction, obviously without knowing her it would be hard to say, but in a marriage i think honesty is the best policy.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Are you absolutely sure she wont accept it? Are you willing to mess it up with her so you can open up? It's a tough decision hunni. All I can advise is you think really hard about what you want to do. If you really want to tell her then do so. If not, can you continue doing it in secret?
xxxxxx
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