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*lizabethdh21
writes:I want to start this by saying that my husband has always been a private person, he hates when I look through any of his stuff. (drawers, boxes, use his phone, ect.) We have been together since the beginning of high school, my sophomore year he was talking to a girl. I had no idea until someone told me that she has love notes from him everyday in class. This really took me by surprise, we broke up for 5 months and didn't talk. But when we did talk, we worked it out and decided to get back together. Little things have come up, like he's talking to his ex and hiding it, or something like that. But I saw the messages and it's nothing more then "how are you" But he does hide things. He is really protective over his phone, and his computer, it seems. But I think I might be a little biased because of what happened in the past. He honestly is a good guy in general, he's in the Army, very family orientated. But I'm wondering if it's me that's worrying to much, or if just maybe he's up to something.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 January 2010):
I'm always suspicious of people who speak to their ex's and lie about it. If you're speaking to someone what have you got to hide? He might be up to something. However before you can confront him or anything like that, you need proof. Don't rely on gut feeling, find proof that he's up to something if you really believe that.
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