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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I have been seeing a guy now for around 6 weeks, been for a lovely dinner and meeting up quite frequently. Everything seemed to be going really well, he was initiating contact every day and asking me when I was free.Then one sunday he was meant to come over, cancelled on me literally hours before with a reason, to me, that wasn't very valid. I brushed it off, gave him the benefit of the doubt and moved on. He works a lot during the week and so started to tell me he could only see me on sundays, something which hadn't been an issue before.. Cutting a long story short, we slept together one night when we had both had a bit to drink and then I didn't hear from him the entire weekend apart from when he was drunk and wanted sex. Then the sunday I was meant to see him, he cancels on me... again but I only found out because I had to ask him what was going on.I asked him what the issue is and he tells me that he was busy and he's sorry and that he would be free the following sunday to meet up. I am not prepared to wait for another cancellation so I said that I was busy and that if he wanted to see me, he's make time during the week.Am I being overly paranoid or has he just lost interest? At first I thought it was because I had finally given in and slept with him after 6 weeks, but it started before then..And should I just leave it now?Any help would be much appreciated :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 November 2012):
 sounds like he's not that interested....
just move on with your life...
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 November 2012):
 It sounds like he has lost interest I'm afraid, if he used to make time for you during the week then all of a sudden he can only do Sundays, something is going on.
I would put an end to it now, before you get hurt further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2012): Move on.. His actions speak louder than anything, he contacted you for sex, says it all.
Next time do not sleep with a guy until you have an engagement ring on your finger or been more than 7 months with.. You are worth more than this..
Keep to what you texted him, if he wants to see you he will free up some time if he doesn't well goodbye bad rubbish, dust yourself down give yourself a pat on the back for sorting out the weeds...
Take care sweetie, chin up..
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