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It seems as though he may like me...but then he ignores me!

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Question - (28 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *eachForTheSky writes:

OK, I like this guy, and sometimes it seems like he likes me. for instance:

1-we were supposed to go to a fair w/a group, but it rained, so (over texting) he said he might go see a movie instead, and I said that sounds like a good idea, and he organized a new group so we could go. I wasn't able to go to the movie, but at dinner b4 he sat next to me. And he tried to get me to be allowed to go to the movie.

2- I asked him the next day (txt) how the movie was and he said it was an awesome movie and he wanted 2 see it again soon. I said awesome, let me know if you do. he promised to, and I said that I only work Friday night but other than that I'm free, and he said sweet.

3- We're going to the beach next week, and when we were planning it, he said he might need a ride so I said he could go w/me and my parents. And he said perfect ?. Then we decided he’d sleep over the night b4 because we leave early, and he wanted 2 know if he could stay over w/us at the beach, just me, him, and my parents (my brother whos his friend isnt going)

4. Sometimes we have long text conversations mostly about art, but sometimes about family and stuff like that, which he has initiated at least half, and continues some, like i'll say i gotta go to bed n he says ok, but then sends me another message like 2 minutes later. One time i was at a party and i mentioned there were hot guys there n didn't respond right away n then later he asked how the party was n if i had fun. I said i did n that i love 2 dance, then i asked if he danced and he said he wants to learn ect. (he'll also talk or be around me a lot in person lately)

BUT

1. sometimes he doesn’t answer my texts, or takes a long time to

2. He never scheduled the movie thing

3. He is more physical with other girls than me, i.e. he’ll put his arm around them or pick them up, but he won’t with me. He’ll do it when I’m around though, and he’ll look at me sometimes when he’s doing it.

Does it seem like he likes me? Its hard to tell because I know he is friendly person with girls

(oh, and i only do group dates at first and he knows that)

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A female reader, justwannabehappy Denmark +, writes (29 August 2010):

HM.. its a hard one.. I think that you have to talk with him more about personal stuff but most of the ttime if someone likes you, it can be felt! For instance, looks are important, if he looks at you in a different way and the way he acts around you, if his feet and legs are leaned towards you it usually means that hes attracted or likes you.. If he touches him self a little nervously.. like touching the neck, face or hair. And if he touches you in a gentle way like putting a hand on your back and stuff. But of course it depends on how he is as a person. Let me know when you start talking about more inttimate stuff and how he actts, Good lucck!

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A female reader, VikkiDec1 United States +, writes (28 August 2010):

VikkiDec1 agony auntIt seems like he's trying to make you jealous with other girls, so I would be careful with this guy. He may be a player who just likes girls, or he may really like you but not know how to go about it. You just have to take some more time to see where things turn out. Try to hangout with him as much as you can when he asks, but play a little hard to get and see what he does. If a guy likes you, he will make time, and he will text/call you back.

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