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How do you know when it's time to break up?

Q.   Hey everyone. So basically my question is how do you know when to break up... My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We've had ups and downs but it has been good! However lately, these past couple of months, I've had some th...

A.   9 March 2015: Hi! Thanks for your very elaborated answer, I really appreciate it! You're right, we can do more things together, which are out of the ordinary. We are planning a vacation together! The problem is my feelings towards him, sometimes I... (read in full...)

A guy I liked at work is taken, but I think he knows I fancy him, should I avoid him?

Q.   So I'm 21 and met this 29 year old older guy at work a few months ago. He's from a different department so didn't speak often but stupidly I really fell for him as he is quite smart. We've talked a few times as his department is meant to be doing ...

A.   7 December 2014: This is out of your hands now, so do the job, talk to him professionally and forget about "that little crush". Don't think about it anymore, you didn't even now he had a family! Just enjoy your work, and do it well and it will soon blow over. Es... (read in full...)

Has your fiance or significant other ever said to you that they appreciate your 'sexual favors?'

Q.   My fiancé use to have a friend with benefits. I often wonder what he did in exchange for her when they had sex. Did he buy her gifts or give her money for sex. She wanted a FWB relationship. He wanted more than that from a relationship. I go...

A.   2 December 2014: Did he say in a humorous tone? Is he usually a guy who is a bit socially awkward? It all depends on how he said, if he truly meant and if he did so, what does it mean for him? You know him best, so either think about it and find an answer t... (read in full...)

Is there a chance for this relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately... I've been feeling a bit left out because he has a large group of friends and a new job and so on. We've still been hanging out and when we do it has been really nice and great just like ...

A.   15 September 2014: He contacted me and we talked... I did a lot of thinking these past days and have found out that i have also been in the Wrong... I've had too much free time and too dependent on him that I forgot to do things that I enjoy and have been expecting ... (read in full...)

So my dilemma is should I tell him about the other guy?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We are in the same class(both 19) and in march we started dating! We used to be best friends before that, and I liked him for a couple months before we started dating, and I ...

A.   16 November 2013: Thanks for your replies! He doesn't know the other guy, I mean they have met before once because of their parents, but they never hang out, and don't have any friends in common: except for me... I just don't know if it's possible to build up a g... (read in full...)

So my dilemma is should I tell him about the other guy?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We are in the same class(both 19) and in march we started dating! We used to be best friends before that, and I liked him for a couple months before we started dating, and I ...

A.   16 November 2013: My doesn't know the other guy, and no one else knows about the kiss except for some of my really close girl friends. I wasn't planning on telling him right now, but after time has passed I've also realized that now that I actually want to be in and ... (read in full...)

I want to know if this LDR could work!

Q.   Sooo i met a guy at a street party a couple of days ago and I just felt something there already... Hes 20 and Im 18. we met two days after at a big party and spent the night together there where we kissed and talked and so on. He has left to where ...

A.   24 June 2012: Hmm true... Im confused I guess... He wrote me again and we talked about it and he said he wanted to come and so on... Im not sure what I feel, I just thnk that if we saw eachother again the feelings would come back and we could have a lot of fun... ... (read in full...)

I want to know if this LDR could work!

Q.   Sooo i met a guy at a street party a couple of days ago and I just felt something there already... Hes 20 and Im 18. we met two days after at a big party and spent the night together there where we kissed and talked and so on. He has left to where ...

A.   20 June 2012: Thanks for the answers! I know a LDR is far from possible at my age... but I still want to try to see if there still is something between like the strong connection at the beggining.... So we wrote messages to each other over the weekend and he ... (read in full...)

I want to know if this LDR could work!

Q.   Sooo i met a guy at a street party a couple of days ago and I just felt something there already... Hes 20 and Im 18. we met two days after at a big party and spent the night together there where we kissed and talked and so on. He has left to where ...

A.   14 June 2012: So we talked everyday on facebook and skyped one more time and now it just seems it has died a bit. the last two days we haven't written as much and i'vel felt a bit like i was the one continuing the conversation.. not all the time though and when ... (read in full...)

Should I just leave it or message him?

Q.   Hey everyone! Im 17 years old and was at a party last night! I was chooi¨sing music on an ipod when a guy comes and agrees with my music taste so we start talking and standing close. we talked about where we come from and normal stuff. HE asked me ...

A.   5 May 2012: I was thinking about writing: hey i met at you that party thursday and it might seem a bit weird, but I thought you were really sweet so I just thought why not writing to you :) Or what do you guys think??... (read in full...)

Any advice on meeting people these next two weeks?

Q.   I'm gonna be stuck in my vacation house for about 2 weeks and I really want to meet some new people. I don't have a problem with my personality or looks, I'm not worried about that part. My house is 2 minutes from the beach but it's in an isolated ...

A.   17 July 2011: I'm 16 so that's not really possible and I'm stuck with my parents as I forgot to mention that... (read in full...)

Normal guys don't turn down hot girls, do they? Is he lying or gay?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and I like(d) a guy in my class, we really started talking a lot more this year and I know that he liked me a couple of years ago. So There were signs that he liked me too, like , he wrote to me and he never had ...

A.   21 March 2011: I just don't want to be turned down face to face it'll only hurt me much more! And I want to wait a little more ... At a party this saturday he was there to, and I was talking to a guy in a room alone and he was the first one to come in but we were ... (read in full...)

Normal guys don't turn down hot girls, do they? Is he lying or gay?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and I like(d) a guy in my class, we really started talking a lot more this year and I know that he liked me a couple of years ago. So There were signs that he liked me too, like , he wrote to me and he never had ...

A.   17 March 2011: Thanks for the answer. I know that my approach was wrong and that I messed things up... Do you think he liked me before this? I think I'm gonna let things pass after time and try to be friends with him, we are still friends but it's weird and we ... (read in full...)

Normal guys don't turn down hot girls, do they? Is he lying or gay?

Q.   Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl and I like(d) a guy in my class, we really started talking a lot more this year and I know that he liked me a couple of years ago. So There were signs that he liked me too, like , he wrote to me and he never had ...

A.   17 March 2011: Well I'm pretty confident but of course I realise that I'm not "hot" in everyone's eyes but we know each other pretty well so I don't think he thinks I'm ugly. I just think that he could have said no if he didn't want me... And my parents weren't ... (read in full...)

We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?

Q.   I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...

A.   2 September 2010: thanks! but im still pretty sad and feel a little heart broken because he hasnt even looked at me in the past days... But i havent looked at him much before that.. but it doesnt feel like hes interested now! If you now that feeling of when you feel ... (read in full...)

We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?

Q.   I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...

A.   1 September 2010: But im so shy i dont know what and how to talk to him.. Im a pretty girl, theres nothing wrong with me and im popular but im just so shy because hes in a higher grade.. and stuff. Im afraid hes gonna refuse me but I really dont wanna live my life ... (read in full...)

We both keep looking at each other, but who makes the next move?

Q.   I kinda like this guy, Or I liked him last school year (we are both 15) But hes in a higher grade than me. So This year ( and last..) I see him looking at me.. if its from a rather close distance I look at him and he quickly turns his head down or ...

A.   30 August 2010: I reaaaaally want to talk t o him to see if theres something more there ! Maybe it could be love if we get to know each tother.. So I really have to suck up and go and talk to him about something.. Today he held the door for me even though I was far ... (read in full...)

It seems as though he may like me...but then he ignores me!

Q.   OK, I like this guy, and sometimes it seems like he likes me. for instance: 1-we were supposed to go to a fair w/a group, but it rained, so (over texting) he said he might go see a movie instead, and I said that sounds like a good idea, and he organ...

A.   29 August 2010: HM.. its a hard one.. I think that you have to talk with him more about personal stuff but most of the ttime if someone likes you, it can be felt! For instance, looks are important, if he looks at you in a different way and the way he acts around ... (read in full...)

I think my mother is having an affair

Q.   Hey.. I really need help! Its about my parents... For the past year my mom has started to not be home that much only a couple of nights a week... She works as a teacher in Sweden (we have a house there and shes swedish...) It costs about 40 $ back ...

A.   17 July 2010: Thank you! This even though it didnt put an end to my despair, did help a bit, I know eventhough that I will never understand their relationship and problems so I quess ill just have to deal with... As long as they take care of my brother and I and ... (read in full...)

I think my mother is having an affair

Q.   Hey.. I really need help! Its about my parents... For the past year my mom has started to not be home that much only a couple of nights a week... She works as a teacher in Sweden (we have a house there and shes swedish...) It costs about 40 $ back ...

A.   12 July 2010: Yeah.. just now I found out that shes surely having an affair.. I saw pictures of her and the man kissing! :( I cant stop crying and every time I give a hint on what I know, she acts like nothing is wrong and that nothing is going on... Im so sad.. ... (read in full...)

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