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writes: hi, well when boyfreind and i were talking on teh phone and he told me that he was wipped by his ex and not me. he also once told me that she gave him everything i could not. this made me feel like crap i mean does that mean he would get bak with her in a second if she came knocking on his door, i hate the fact that he always put her above me she does everything better than me. he doesn't tell me but whenever we talk about her it's always great things and when it comes to me there are neagtive and few postivies. what should i do, let go to him so he can go bak to the ex that can give him everything or stay through it and see what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): Just let him go and move on. He doesn't respect you and by the sounds of it he doesn't like you either. You need a person that will support you, not tear you down by comparing you to the ex. Make a clean break and get away from this guy.
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reader, camille  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 It doesn't matter whether he goes back to his ex. What matters is YOU. Yes, let him go, but not because of what he wants, but what you deserve. He's a heartless, cruel guy who is trying to make you feel insecure or jealous. Don't put up with his mind games. Why waste your time on someone who talks about heir ex all the time. Show him the door you're better off without him.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (2 June 2006):
 If all he does is talk about the ex, and go on about how great she is then hes clearly not into you! He's not over her and is comparing you to her every step of the way. Get out and find someone that will be with you for you and wont have any hangups about their previous girlfriends. If hes not treating you right and your unhappy then dont stay.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Either do`nt talk about her and make her a banned topic or move on out and leave him to hero worship her in peace, because that is what he is doing, some comparrison with ex`s is normal but should not be voiced with new partner, he is just not over her.
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reader, AndersAmanda  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 If he makes you feel like crap then why are you with him? Get guts and tell him to take a hike. He shouldn't have a girlfriend if he is still hooked on an ex.
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