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writes:My husband and i have been married 15yrs but up to a few years ago things were mostly good. But the last few years hes changed! He has developed walking around wanting to be naked. Sitting downstairs watch tv no clothes on. Even if we have our daughter to stay he has a shower with the door slighty open. And walks across the landing with no clothes on! Me and my daughter have both caught him looking at her! She his step daughter 26! Like looking down her top if she bend over or if she has a skirt on she feel uncomfortable! She even had her boobs uplifted last yr and he wanted to come to the consoltation and fell out with us cos he wasnt aloud. Which i find kinda sleazy! Also i have always dressed up and worn stocking in bed for him but now he says thats boring! He wants to video and take pictures of me with the camera right up between my legs which i find degrading! I didnt want to do it so he went in a hump and said hes so frustrated! And its borin. Just in the bedroom. He want more excitement! He keeps saying u know what i want from u! But im not happy bout doing that at all! Also he keeps getting up every nite going downstairs with his phone been sneaky and hes down there along time making a drink .i cant catch him out cos he would hear me! But hes upto something! As he has his phone on him all the time! Basically hes saying if i dont do what he wants then hes not with our sex life! Which makes me think he watching porn to get his kick in the nite! What do u think. Just seems so sleazy. And im not happy and cant look at him the same!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): There's a very simple set of rules you can try to follow. It's not easy to do maybe but it is simple to understand. And it's what's needed:
1 Discuss the problems
2 Try to resolve them as much as you can by working together
3 If you can't resolve this to both your satisfactions you have to end the relationship.
And I guess point 3 is absolutely crucial. AS far as I am concerned sexual relationships are wonderful, they are brilliant.
But there is no reason that they will ever last 'forever.'
And we need to face up to that as societies across the world.
People should work together openly, honestly, with good will to try to get the best they can out of relationships.
If it comes down to it the best thing might be to move on. But hopefully you'll get to a solution first.
Thanks.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 May 2009):
 He sounds like a dirty old man! I would be ashamed of him, talk to him and tell him to stop being a sleaze! He needs help! X
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 May 2009):
He sounds like a dirty old man! I would be ashamed of him, talk to him and tell him to stop being a sleaze! He needs help! X
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