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Is this even a legitimate relationship?

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Question - (27 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 17 and met a guy B through family. He is 17 going on 18 next week. We've been dating for almost a month.

B wants to join the marines, he asked me to wait for him. I said yes. Then for a week and a half, he was depressed so we barely talked but he did say he loved me.

Now its been a week, we have yet to talk. I try texting him, no reply. I think its because I told him I love him back. He even said he doesn't know if he does anymore or if this is legit relationship... is it?

what do i do?

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2011):

angelDlite agony aunthi

this lad sounds as if he just doesn't know what he wants, you have been dating less than a month, he should not have told you that he loves you because he doesn't seem to, he seems very confused doesn't he? remain on friendly terms and see what happens, just chill out, maybe one day he will fall in love with you, but this has to be when he has gotten to know you a lot better. so no, if he says it is not a legit relationship then it obviously isn't, it may be one day, but not yet

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

You're 17, he's 17 there is a 0% chance he is the man you spend the rest of you life with. AND he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, so seriously... get over it, your wasting your time.

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A female reader, hotnhorny United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2011):

hotnhorny agony auntPersonally I think that he only said that he loved to see weather or not he can trust you kind of thing, but when you said you loved him back you gave him an open ticket to do what he wants with who and when he wants. This isnt a legit relationship and I think that you should move on and make your self happy. Do things that you used to do and dont worry about if or when he is going to speak to you again. Live your own life more than likely he will speak to you at some point and try the same thing as he already has.

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