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Has anybody else been in a situation like this?

Q.   hello i have a question my girlfriend and i was together for two years she lived with me for a year and a half done things couples do she told me she loved me everyday we even talked about marriage to make a long story short her girlfriend neede...

A.   3 February 2011: You have got yourself into a real situation aint ya hunny. Although your friends are right in saying that she cant have not had feelings for you as she stayed as long as she did and even more if you were on about getting married, but this does ... (read in full...)

Is this even a legitimate relationship?

Q.   i am 17 and met a guy B through family. He is 17 going on 18 next week. We've been dating for almost a month. B wants to join the marines, he asked me to wait for him. I said yes. Then for a week and a half, he was depressed so we barely talked b...

A.   22 January 2011: Personally I think that he only said that he loved to see weather or not he can trust you kind of thing, but when you said you loved him back you gave him an open ticket to do what he wants with who and when he wants. This isnt a legit relationship ... (read in full...)

Why did he say his only regret was that I didnt come with him?

Q.   i need to know how my friend really feels about me. lately hes been cool with me and hardly contacting me since moving to a new work section in my company. i was very hurt that he was ignoring me so called him for a coffee and told him how i felt he ...

A.   22 January 2011: Hes secretly hiding a soft spot for you and doesnt realise how he can tell you so he is trying to show you. Make it clear to him that you like him as well and then maybe he will start to be more open when he nose that it isnt in his head and that ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend could be really ill, what are the chances I will lose the love of my life?

Q.   Dear Cupid, im 16 yrs old and i have a bf who i've known for years but has been with him for only 2 months. Im HONESTLY so in love with him. I dont know what i would do without him. He told me this story that when he was born, he was born with an ...

A.   19 November 2010: I have recently been in the same situation. I am 20 and my husband has been told he has sever epilepsy, an abnormality on his brain and he could be paralysed by the time he is 40. So I understand exactly how you feel. When you first find out about ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?

Q.   I'm 16..And I have a boyfriend..But we've never met in person before..only on webcam and phone..And he's halway around the world..Well I guess the question is..Is it weird?Am I crazy for falling in love with a guy I haven't met in person yet?...

A.   17 November 2010: Without out sounding offensive or anything (apologise if I do) at the tender age of 16 you dont really no what love is. Lots of people fall 'in love' over the internet, I no I have done it my self but it doesnt always work out for everyone. What you ... (read in full...)

I don't feel I should have to ask for oral sex, especially when I give him oral 2-3 times a week!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost one year and I give him oral 2-3 times per week without him asking but he has only given to me maybe once a month or less. I don't feel like I should have to ask-am I doing something wrong?...

A.   17 November 2010: Welcome to the world of being a woman hunny. Im in the exact same situation. Men just dont seem to realise that oral means just as much to us as it does to them. The best thing I suggest that you can do is talk to him about it and let him no that ... (read in full...)

I just don't understand guys!

Q.   I don't get it. I met this nice guy at a friend's party a while back, exchanged numbers and now if I have any contact with him its only because I initiated it! The funny thing is I didn't ask for his digits, I asked if he was a member of a certain ...

A.   21 October 2010: Seriously huuny he aint all that into you if he dont contact you is he. It sounds like hes just playing you cos you let ya guard down at the party. I understand that exam times are very stressful and that ya do need to study but persoanlly I would ... (read in full...)

Father of my baby is having thoughts about my friend!

Q.   Hi Cupids, Really need your help. Last night i found out that my boyfriend of 1 yr 2 months has been speaking to my female friend, he told her that he's been having 'thoughts' about her, and that he was waiting for a kiss off her. I'm fully aware ...

A.   21 October 2010: First of all congratulations on your pregnancy hope things are going ok with you and the baby. I completly agree with you on the basis that you cannot trust him, I wouldnt either. It is never right to stay with someone just for the sake of a chil... (read in full...)

Bisexual or just curious

Q.   Hey Guys and Gals... Don't know what I'm really looking for here, suppose its for someone to relate so it doesn't all feel so bizarre and illicit. Basically, I'm a straight girl, virgin, no real experience to speak of, but very into guys. I ...

A.   21 October 2010: Hi There. You seem to have answered your own question there. Ofcourse it is normal to think about having encounters with people of the same sex when you no that your straight. The main thing is that you need to be honest with yourself. This might ... (read in full...)

All I can think about is sex and I'm going desperate! Is this normal?

Q.   hey all,, this is a 19 year old guy, a virgin guy, yes I never had sex, because the gals in my town are not so open, well it's not too easy to get a girlfriend here. but since last few months, i'm just getting out of control. whenever i see a...

A.   30 June 2010: First thing first DONT be ashamed or embarrassed about still being a virgin at 19 there is absolutely nothing wrong with that in any way shape or form. I am also glad to hear that you are not contenplating using a prostitute. It might make you f... (read in full...)

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