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male
age
26-29,
*oushite
writes:Hello, so long story short two important girls in my life my gf and my best friend..so me and my gf were having sex the other day and im just keeping it cool trying to last longer for my girl.. and its working im doing good..the sex prolongs for about 20 mins later for some reason i started thinking of my best friend..yes i had feelings for her back then but it was back then..when i started thinking her my mind put her in my girls place.. at that moment i was getting the tingly feeling of cumming and i did.. i haven't told my gf about this yet.. what does this mean? am i unfaithful thinking of another girl?? this never happened before..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): I agree with the poster that wrote: Don't tell her.
There's no reason to hurt her and you did not cheat on her.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): Don't feel bad about it. It makes you weak. Also you shouldn't take relationships that serious at your age. Relax. Collect some experience. Maybe you should call this other girl.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): No it isn't fantasising about her, you obviously weren't concentrating on having sex with the girl you were sleeping with if not you wouldn't be thinking about other people. Maybe instead of thinking about your friend you should put the effort into lasting longer for your girlfriend. Just imagine if you found out she was thinking about another guy when having sex with you - how would you feel? Or even another girl? There's always someone out there that could fill your place, just because of some feelings ages ago for a friend - forget about her!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 " i haven't told my gf about this yet."
YET???
word of advice - don't tell her. it will hurt her, damage the trust she has for you, wreck her self confidence, she will probably never enjoy sex with you the same again, she may even dump you, or if she stays she will give you hell, questions, ban you from ever seeing your friend, you will be expected to delete your friends number and all sorts. seriously isn't worth it. DO NOT TELL, ok?
don't worry about this. you haven't been unfaithful. hell your girl might well have been fantasising about someone else too, but the difference is that what you don't know can't hurt you
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reader, fishdish +, writes (18 August 2011):
 It was sort of an accident, that both you came and that you didn't know that you were going to be turned on anymore by the idea of your best friend. I kind of think of fantasizing about someone else intentional, and you didn't intend to, so as long as you don't do it in the future I think you're okay and there's no need to bring it up (do you tell her about what/who you think about when you masturbate?) because it will only make her insecure and hurt.
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