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female
age
41-50,
*unshine30
writes:I have been dating this guy for about 7months now. He has been to my house many times. I havent been to his place yet. He says hes stayin with his sister due to a recent situation. However, a couple weeks ago his "ex" or "g/f" lives a few blocks up and has started to flip out on him because he's with me. I have asked him what's up with me not coming over?So, do I go to his house and find out who is there? Or is there another way to let him to get me to come over?Over the past month, we have broken up seems every friday and get back by monday morning. Yet, he doesnt answer his phone or texts on the weekends or weeknights he is @ his sisters. Should I be leary? I am having some doubts at this point that he is living with his ex and wants his cake and eat it too kinda thing. BUT what if he really is living with his sister?Then I hear "You're a good woman, You deserve better, Im unable to love you as a mate, I care about you a lot, I can love you as a friend and I dont want to hurt you" I hate to make excuses but all in all is that his way of sayin beat it to the curb? But in the same breath he is saying he needs me as a friend now and doesnt want to be enemies. He is pulling a string from my heart- I care emensly about him and possibly starting to love him. Can I get him to change his mind or feelings? MOst of this is from his "ex or g/f"whatever she is. confused and hurt..
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reader, Deema  +, writes (2 October 2008):
 Darling you're not confused and hurt at all. You know exactly whats going on, you've said it all above. Trust your gut and do what its telling you. You don't need us to say it, you already know.
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