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36-40,
*eraciousone
writes:Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy to see me and we are planning to see each other. she told me her background and how she was dis-virgin by a married man and i ask her whether she still having sex since then and she said yes.she was in love with a guy and because the guy have got what he want that why the guy denied her, she's lonely now. i advice her not to have sex again because is not good and she promise me that she wouldn't do it again. she said am a good person and she like my advice and she never see a guy that hate sex like me.is not that i haven't had sex before but i was dis-virgin when i was 10 years with a girl of 18years and since then i hate sex.i told her that, we promise each other that our relationship will not involved sex. she love me and also do. we call,text and advice each other. we are planning to see now when i come back, we lived in the same country just eight hours journey to reach her place. why i love her is that she never hurt me or even talk of age to me or to show level to me just like other girls do. she bring herself down to me and i love that.my question now is is there is any problem of falling in love with a girl that senior you or older than you.please help me...
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 Not a problem.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 November 2009):
Not at all. I'm seeing an older women. go for it.
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reader, Accountable +, writes (19 November 2009):
 One year is absolutely nothing :) the more prominent problem here is why you wan a platonic relationship with somebody you love, a bad experience in the past shouldnt stop you (and your girlfriend!) from enjoy sex. I would suggest some kind of counselling or therapy so you can move on from this and both of you can start enjoying a fully functioning, adult relationship.. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): You seriously need to see a professional for some counseling. Why would anyone willingly enter into a relationship without sex? It will not last. Sex is an important part of any relationship. You have never even met the girl and say you love her. It sounds to me like you have serious issues around sex and relationships and are a very insecure person. You cannot control another person's sexuality. One year is no difference at all - but I would strongly advise you to sort yourself out before you start with this relationship - it will only end in tears.
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (19 November 2009):
 It's only a year, infact, it might not even be a whole 12 months. That's nothing at all, so there's nothing wrong with that. A lot of people make huge age gaps work reasonably well, so you wouldn't even notice the difference.
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