Is there a problem if I don't want to have sex with him??

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi Agony Aunts I just had a question about sex. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months and we were each others first time, however as much as I love and adore him, I can't seem to get excited about having sex, and I never have done. When we first started dating we didn't have sex, but there were times I wanted to, but now that we are it's completely gone, whatever there was in the first place. I find this very strange as I always thought I would enjoy sex but I just don't. It's not affecting our relationship at all but is there a problem there?? I don't think it's him at all, is it me??

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