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writes:So my boyfriend and i have been together 8 months we are having a baby next month.he has wonted us to live together and be a family but im not ready for us to live together.he has also talked about getting married, he has told me before that he is IN LOVE with me.but the problem is its summer and he is out of school for the summer. im 18 and he is 19.we didnt get to see eachother alot because he had school then had to go to work. but nowits the same i still dont see him that much. when i do see him he just comes over to my house.or i go to his house. and we dont do nothing fun! so its pretty boring. i have told him about this but hesays the reason we dont do anything is because i never wont to. i told him that he never asks me the only thing he does is asks what i want to do but i tell him "i dont know" because i wont him to pick kinda like surprise me. if that makes since. the other problem is, everytime we see each other he always wonts to have sex! sometimes we dont but 90% of the time we do. he says that sex is what makes a relationship. is that true? my question is will our relationship last also how do i handle not getting to see him or when i do we never do nothing fun because i dont wanna pick?'thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 June 2011):
 Sex is not what makes a relationship, sure, it plays a big part but if that is all you have its going to get boring pretty darn quick!
Laughter, joking, being together, talking, sitting quietly,spending time with friends, spending time with extended family, going for walks, making plans, being silly, sharing dreams for the future, it really does seem that you two are not communicating very well. I would hold off on making any committments to this young man for a few years at least.
And good luck with the baby!!
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