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writes: Hi, I hope my question get answered cause i been confused. First off, let me tell you that this has been going on for 5 months straight. All right, here's the deal, I am in college and I get the feeling that this woman in my class likes me or is playing games with me, but I am not sure. Here is why I think this. I really never noticed this woman until she started doing this. She looks at me when I walk into the room. There are a bunch of other guys in the class and the only one she looks at (I think) is me. She started a random conversation with me out of nowhere with me one day. She asked what class I am taking, when do I finish, how long I have been taking it. Her friends always smile at me when i am around them. Out of all the places she sits in the class, she sits two rows in front of me where I can see her everyday. She looks at me sometimes, the next day she ignores me, other days she looks at me and so on. One time she was not in class for a week and she was downstairs doing CSS (A school thing). Her teacher was my practicum teacher. I went downstairt to look for him. I was talking to him and throughout the whole time I was talking to him, she was staring at me non stop and did not look away once. Basically she was standing working on a project the entire time I was there she was not at all working on that project. I was out in the hall talking to a friend. Right in front of me is the door to go upstairs to class and right next to me is the hallway to go to class (but a longer way). Instead of taking the short way, she walks by me and decides to take the long way. I got one of my women friends to talk to her and she came back and said that it was not gonna happen. I said cool, and I left it at that and moved on. But, then we have this. I talked to her friend because I was setting her friend up with a future practicum interview becuase I know a person in her field. While I was talking to her friend, she was sitting there giving me this sheepish smile and has this day dreaming look in her eyes. I'm not sure but that is what it looks like. Recently i have been talking to her but with random convos about school. I wished her a merry christmas one day when she left early. She says: "I am coming tom, say that to me tom", while smiling at me. I make a joke, she laughs before she leaves. The next day, I see her, but she walks right near me. (not 5 feet away from me or near my buddy who I was with at the time) She walks near me to the point where I can almost smell her hair, I say "can i say merry christmas now?" She says yes with a little grin. I say it she smiles. I go in the lounge to chill with my buddy, Her and her friend walk in and start talking. All of sudden all of us are talking. Here where it gets confusing. While I am talking to her, it seems that she wants me to say stuff to her. She is smiling but i don't know if she is into me. I heard it is playing hard to get, but when this happens it seems that she does not want to do anything with me. So like i said before, i am very confused. What do you all think about this? Is she into me? and if she is why is she doing stuff that makes me think that she does not want anything to do with me. One final thing, would be, that she is East Indian and i am Spanish. My skin is very dark so a lot of people mistake me for being East Indian. But the thing is, i have talked spanish when she is around. I have been teaching my friend spanish when she is around so i don't know if she has cuaght on or has not noticed. either way she still does these signals. So my question is, can east indian woman date spanish men? Race is not an issue to me, but i have heard the east indian culture can be very picky when it comes to whom to date. Am i wrong? So is it possible for east indian woman to date spanish men? Thank you, and I look foward to anybody's advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2006): I have a friend whos either southern or northern indian...im not sure. But either way, I know that her parents are very strict about dating and can only date other indians, any indians. She has gotten this into her mind too. Her sister formerly had dated a black man but her parents looked down her very much and would pretty much shun her if she got married. So i mean her parents might not be too happy if you guys date, but unless you actually get married, dont worry. And if you love her enough to get married, she should be able to sacrifice that and let her parents accept that race doesnt matter.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (2 January 2006):
Hello there,
Wow seems like youre quite confused hey! From what you have said it sounds to me like she deffintly likes you! Those times when she appears to perhaps not like you, well maybe she is playing hard to get? Some girls, unfortunatly believe thats the way to get a guy, when its not, it just confuses the hell out of them! and puts them off as they feel they arent like wen they are playing the 'hard' bit.
So yes I think she does like you and I say go for it! She might just be a bit shy at times and be to shy to 'give it all away'. And you know when your friend asked her if she liked you and she said no? I know if a guy got one of his mates to ask me and I liked him, i would still say no cause I would want to tell the guy in person. Plus some people find it a bit hard to tell someone they like them, neverless there crushes friend!
As for the race issue, I'm really not sure at all. I don't know anything about her race and there values, yet I do know there are ones hwo stick to there traditional belifes and who don't. So I say go for it. Ask her out on a date and if she accepts she probably wont have any problem with it!!!! good luck, hope all goes well for you.
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