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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So recently I met this Asian girl at a friends house and we all had dinner. We had a few drinks and got chatting. We had a lot of fun together and she told me something personal. Soon after it was cut short and it was time to go home. I walked her to her door and asked her for her number. Fortunately she gave it to me. So we sent a few texts back and forward over a few days, I asked her out for a coffee. She said she was too busy to me but an hour later she said she'd meet up with me with our mutual friend for dinner somewhere. So we meet up and once again we had fun. I drove her to work later that day and we chatted and stuff in the car.Later that day we messaged a lot longer than usual and she told me she felt very comfortable around me even though it was our second time meeting. So earlier today I called her special, in a good way (regarding something she did the other day for a stranger) and she laughed and said that I don't know that yet. So I used that to ask her out again. She said yes. So after all that my question is: Does she see me as a friend that she can talk to or a potential relationship?I have noticed that she is telling me a few personal things when we chat but she also mentioned to me that she's only dated assholes and doesn't want to anymore.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 December 2013):
 I think it may develop into something but don't force it or rush it.... but it does sound promising... just try to relax and enjoy it.
respect her boundaries.... if after 6-8 weeks of regularly seeing her alone via "dates" you set up, you can ask her where you two stand... but don't do it too early...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2013): Possibly more than a friend.
She enjoys your company, she spent time with you,Its positive.
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reader, llifton +, writes (15 December 2013):
 Sounds like it's promising. but it also sounds like she's taking it slow. She wanted her friend around just for comfort sake and to slow the tempo down. But she also agreed to see you. If she wasn't interested, I highly doubt she would have found a way to make it happen. She would have just said no.
Just take it really slow. Don't push or ask for too much too much too soon. Maybe a date once a week or every other week and talk on the phone until she gets completely comfortable.
Good luck! :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (15 December 2013):
 I think you are a date but you don't want her to get too comfortable though. She knows you are not an asshole so far but a little bit of suspense is good. You are still getting to know each other so a potential relationship is still faraway.
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