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Is she leading me on?

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Question - (17 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

In the start of a new high school year, a girl in my Foreign Language class instantly attracts my attention.

I'm a pretty zany kind of guy, so when we had classwork to do (our teacher allows us to work with anyone we wish), I went around the class trying to copy answers, and inevitably I was on hers.

She made me feel incredibly uncomfortable. Smiling at me a lot, and giggling at my little copy-errors. I sort of shied a smile back when the time came, but my heart was racing a bit too much that period to do much.

After that, we would often run each in between periods, and she would flash a non-toothy grin, and i would turn my head down in an awkward smile.

I didn't know how to react.

Now, during class, I would catch her looking at me through my peripheral vision and I would meet her gaze for a moment, look back at my work, and smile and shake my head.

She replies with a similar gesture.

Is she leading me on? Because she has a boyfriend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):

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Thanks, I guess I'll just ignore her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

Maybe she just finds you funny x

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (17 September 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntShe's smiling at you. You're reading too much into it right now. If she puts her hand on your heinie and gives it a squeeze or goes in for a kiss or flashes you, then she's leading you on.

She may be a zany girl herself, with a sunny disposition and a bad habit of smiling at funny guys.

Don't overthink this, you're just making yourself uncomfortable. If it bothers you, just ignore her.

Good luck!

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