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anonymous
writes:OK so i have liked this guy for ages and he knows and he has told me that he likes me as well but we are not together and are both single. When we are together we act like we are a couple and he is really sweet. He still has a lot of contact with his ex girlfriend but he says he doesn't like her any more and they havent been together for a year or something but still have sex. So the other day I kissed his friend from work and now he isn't speaking to me and has gone in a mood. I dont get what he wants? What should I do :( Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Don't give him the time of day if he is still having sex and a relationship with his x. Maybe he is just fulfilling his sexual needs. Still, this is not right.
Your kissing his friend bothered his pride, not his heart. You have not captured his heart, and I wouldn't bother to try.. He knows you, likes you, confides about sex with you. This does not have the makings of a relationship between you. It sounds more like a friendship.
He is probably not speaking because you weren't available for him at that moment. He thinks he can have you at the snap of a finger although he hasn't actually "snapped his finger" for that to happen.
What does he want? Probably just what you already have. He does definitely want to be in control of the situation.
I have to ask. Why did you kiss his friend? Did you initiate it? What kind of kiss was it?
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