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writes:I just want to know how do I tell when my girlfriend is about to have an orgasm or is busy having one, because most of the time when i give her oral sex, her body shakes and she tenses up for a moment then releases and she moans alot, is she having an orgasm? and also, afterwards she says her legs are lame and weak and that she cant walk, why is this?
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reader, daletom  +, writes (3 January 2010):
It certainly sounds like she's having an orgasm. Don't be surprised if she needs your tongue or fingers to get her there, and can't achieve orgasm with you inside her - that's not unusual. But . . . it gives the two of you a wonderful opportunity to experiment and find out what she responds to. (Most women are more likely to reach orgasm during intercourse if they are on top, or if she (or her partner) can rub or finger her while he's stroking.)
Just don't pressure her. It's a macho thing to think that she should climax while you're inside her, but a lot of women have difficulty doing this.
(p.s. - great links, "satindesire".)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 January 2010):
 Sounds like it! A good orgasm definitely makes your legs weak and oral sex is usually a good way to get one. You could always just ask her right after, "did you have an orgasm?" I bet she'd be more than happy to gush a little afterwards.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 January 2010):
Yes, she's had an orgasm, and the reason her legs are lame is because of the intense blood flow.
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