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writes: There is only one friend of my boyfriend's that I am a little iffy about, and it's a girl. He has other girl friends and I don't feel as threatened by them as I do by this one. She seems to always want to hang out with him but when he includes me in the plans, she first agrees then backs out. This has happened about 4 times. She tells him she'll add me on Facebook but never does (not that fb matters much). She always wants to be in the same classes as him (we're in college). And sometimes, when him and I are together, he will talk to her in front of me, through text. It's extremely annoying. We were having dinner yesterday and he just texts her while I'm talking to him. He put the phone away eventually but I was annoyed, though they talked about college.I usually don't mind but when I came to his house and took a nap, I woke up to find him chatting with her as well. I know he's not cheating on me because he never sees her, I'm just annoyed at how she changes her mind about plans. She agreed to hang out with him alone but when he called for her to have dinner with him, me, and another guy friend she KNOWS(so she wouldn't be the third wheel)I could hear her on the phone like "um...yeah....ummmm I can't make it, I'm like tired and stuff....noooo I can't." I actually WANT to meet her to put my mind at ease and because she seems nice but her always backing out when I'm included is suspicious to me. I don't mind them talking, they just talk about school stuff and don't talk that much, but why does she do this??
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reader, PerhapsNot  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 Maybe she doesn't like talking or hanging out with other women? Chances are though, she just doesn't want to meet you because she likes your boyfriend. Ask yourself: does your boyfriend spend more time texting and talking to her than his other female friends? Does he speak to her more than his guy friends? If so, is it because she is his best bud? If they're not good friends and he spends a lot of time talking to her solely, chances are something is going on between them.
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