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*prvedgrl
writes:OK Yes I just got out of a 9 year off and on relationship. I can't stress how much I am over the guy the father of my seven year old and now unborn child. He doesn't want anything to do with us...again. i asked for advice on convincing a guy I've been knowing three years only as a friend to have a long distance relationship after he said that he might not be ready for one after i told him about my pregnancy. He even has a on and off relationship with his baby's mom and she too is expecting. Im in houston he is in louisiana. I took everyone's idvice on focus on my children and decided I could just wait since I don't want casual sex. After seeing him yesterday and talking with him this morning I'm back at really liking him. It seems like he really likes me and he was a gentleman the whole time. My question is that is it possible that after going to see him back and forth after awhile what would be so wrong if we did start a relationship? He sleeps like all day anyway and works at night. Im not interested in no one else since my ex tends to send loosers my way when we are broken up. I know now this has happened once before. He will make it a point to see I'm not with a genuine guy. He even said you will never get satisfied. He purposely used me for sex the whole time we were together. He never let me orgasm. he would switch up once I was about to and that is what happened twice after i dumped him with two different guys. I know he can't talk to or know the whole world, but i know this guy and ive always crushed on him. I think the idea of me being pregnant grew on him i could see he wants to trust me. I am so trustworthy but should i just stop what im feeling for real?
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reader, pschitzo n not +, writes (21 January 2013):
Well i think some of the others have some helpful advice so check em all out my take is he may be enjoying his no strings atatched life for now and it all seems cool to him but not rite now hes prolly having trouble figurin out how to make everything in his life work together to live without all the baby mama drama n learmin valuble life lessonshes definatly a nice guy or realy into you dont beet yerself up or focus on just him u never know mister riggt can be the guy holdin the door for t at the gasstation n let u go first do some guys notice u more than once n give u a nod these guys are ones who want u to notice them plenty of fish in the sea
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reader, CMMP +, writes (21 January 2013):
You're kind of asking the same question over again. If you don't want to take everybody's advice then you are free to do what you think is best for you and your kids.
The fact remains that it's difficult to begin a long term relationship via a long distance relationship.
There really needs to be a plan for making it into a normal relationship, otherwise you're wasting your time.
From what it sounds like you're into this guy as much as you could be into anyone else that already lives in Houston. It's not like you knew him and fell in love but he had to move away.
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